I am afraid Lallyn that this man is trying to tell you nicely that he sees no future for a relationship between you.
You barely know him, he lives in the U.S. and you in Germany and seemingly he travels a lot.
I know you are hurt right now, but try to move on and find yourself another nice man who wants a stable relationship.
Tell this man to stop texting you - if he has decided after being with you twice that things aren't going to work, then that is his decision and you won't change his mind.
Don't let him make you into the woman he sleeps with when and if he is in Germany, then Auf Wiedersehen, bis später!
Good Morning Wednesday 24 April 2024