Cougars - not the four legged type

tickingbird

It’s the same old story. There have been many programmes on such relationships. When the young men concerned are from poor countries it is usually a way of either getting into the UK or sourcing money. I’m afraid your friend may be about to get her heart broken. I find it very sad.

His- he is gay.

Sago

Not a Cougar but a sucker.

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Not a Cougar but a sucker.

It’s the same old story. There have been many programmes on such relationships. When the young men concerned are from poor countries it is usually a way of either getting into the UK or sourcing money. I’m afraid your friend may be about to get her heart broken. I find it very sad.

I have a friend from San Fran who is 65 and marrying a Moroccan guy who is 33 in two days time. I mean, he is fit for his age, granted- but when he is 85, his husband will be 53 and in his prime.

Strange isn't it how the age difference is acceptable with an older man and younger woman but not the other way round.
I hope your friend is not giving away money she can't afford Franbern

If a good close friend I would have a gentle chat with her , she probably won't listen because in her mind she is young and beautiful again , mention about the money subject and of course the passport issue . Also ask to meet him socially , use your own intuition . Always a very difficult situation. Best wishes to you and your friend

There is no point in saying anything to her, she cannot see what is obvious and will not take kindly to being told.

Fortunate in a way that she doesn’t have a lot of money to give, the relationship will end sooner.

In a way, it has suited both of them, him a little money and her a bit of excitement.

I thought a Cougar was being independant and not wanting to be tied to one man, just picking up a man when it suited you and not getting emotionally involved

I wouldn't say she is a cougar. I always thought that a cougar was a woman who actively went after younger men.

It sounds like your friend is being scammed, especially as she has given him money. She needs to be very careful