My daughter and her female partner have been happily together for about five years, and her girlfriend brought a lovely extra dimension to our family. She is a quiet young woman, a contrast to our outgoing daughter, and we thought it was to be for good. They complimented each other in many ways, and were equally kind and considerate to each other and to both families. We know and like her parents and their backgrounds are interesting and similar to ours. My daughter has had a few serious relationships and I was so relieved for her that she seemed to now have “the one”. She is 37 and her partner 31. She is now distraught that her GF wants to end the relationship. Her/their reasons are obviously between them and I have no wish to be involved in any way. But my DH and I, and my other ACs are feeling so upset by the partner’s loss from our lives. Everywhere I look around the house are photos and other reminders. We may never meet her again. It’s such a strange and unsettling feeling. Obviously I can’t contact her, or can I? Secretly hoping maybe just maybe they’ll work it out. 😢
