My first gf accepted my request, is it worth messaging her?

Strange post from the OP! 😟 Wonder if he,ll come back...,??

I wouldn’t spend too much time and energy Deedaa might not be a person ???

I would tread carefully. DH lost touch with his best friend a few years after we got married. He was delighted when the friend made contact about 20 years later. He came round to see us one afternoon. He had split up with the very nice wife we had last seen him with, and had married an alcoholic who had died in bed with him shortly afterwards. He was now a shambling alcoholic himself and we didn't see him again.

I have to say, though, I do like the way the Bots use paragraphs.

At least someone is giving the Bots recognisable names instead of the usual gobbledygook ones.

Chatbot.

Where’s plimsoll person when you need them

I meant to put 😂

Dottydots

someone liking your posts means nothing. If you want to get in touch with her you will have message her
let us know how it goes

Lol

Over there, on the chair, are my teeth my false leg and my hair

If she won't have you, what about me? 82 and still have my own hair and teeth!

OP

This woman wants nothing from you but friendship and you have 2 ways of looking at it

You can see yourself as "friend zoned" and be hurt that despite your accomplishments she refuses to see more in you

You can realise that you have put this woman in the "girlfriend zone" when that is not what she wants and you could have had a lovely long lasting friendship

Time to let go of this romantic interest and move forward with your life, it is not healthy for you

Thanks Cossy
I still use a quill pen.

I think OP is on the wrong site 😁

Callistemon21

What's instagram?
Is that like a telegram?

#^Oldgranny^

Yes another much used social media site where pictures are used and fewer words. Snapchat is yet another where photos feature then vanish (so I’m told!)

What's instagram?
Is that like a telegram?

#Oldgranny

Perhaps because older allegedly means wiser.

Oh, give it a go.
Ask her, message her.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

poor thing.. ask your mates

Perhaps he thought with our experience of life we may have the answer to his problems.

Gin

Does he think we are agony aunts?

Well.........I am IN agony today, my arthritis is really playing up! Does that count? Perhaps he got his wires crossed.

Easter hols.

Oh for the days when romancing didn’t need to be conducted through social media. My head hurts just reading that OP.

Faint heart ne’er won fair lady.

Ask on mumsnet they ll sort your love life and you, out
Probably another scam post

Well I think he should just go for it and stop dithering about. If she says no then he knows to move on and if she says yes then winner winner!