Husband’s early retirement delayed

My husband was due to retire recently but has now decided to continue to work for another 9 months. He is currently working long hours and won’t take any holidays until he retires. I had lots of plans of things we could do and places to go and now it’s on hold. I feel extremely fed up about our plans being delayed. I’m currently struggling with the Menopause so was looking forward to getting support from my husband. I feel that we have now become distant since his decision to work longer. I am reacting irrationally to his decision but life is too short and 9 months extra work seems too long.