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What do you think about my situation?

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Ilovecandy12 Wed 28-Oct-26 21:40:25

Do u think I'm stuck and have a routine?
So I'm a 31 year old turning 32 in December and I never had a bf still living with parents and I've been working at McDonalds for 11 years I don't have any friends I just work and come home. but i sometimes go shopping by myself after work or with a coworker. on Sundays when i get out of work i go out with my parents. But Monday and Tuesday I go out with my mom & go shopping.

NotSpaghetti Wed 28-Oct-26 23:20:20

Maybe start something new and see if you like it?

Ilovecandy12 Wed 28-Oct-26 23:19:15

Yes

Grammaretto Wed 28-Oct-26 23:17:24

Are you American?

MollyNew Wed 28-Oct-26 22:55:06

Ok, in my opinion you're questioning your lifestyle choices so you need to make changes. You should ask for advice on a forum more suited to your peer group.

Ilovecandy12 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:52:18

I sometimes think I’m wasting my life & doing nothing with my life because I’m still living with my parents, never had a bf & still working at McDonald for 11 years & on Sunday I go out with my parents. Then on Monday & Tuesday I go shopping with my mom

Cabbie21 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:42:08

Why are you asking?
Has someone suggested your life isn’t fine?

Do your parents want you to move out, perhaps?

Shel1951 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:38:07

If your fine with it then its fine, you have to walk your own path, your young,when you get fed up want a change you can.

Fallingstar Wed 28-Oct-26 22:36:39

I read a book recently that is almost exactly the same as this scenario called The Convenience Store Worker, by a Japanese author.
Very strange, is as if this storyline has been borrowed but tweaked.
Could be a real human or a bot but really and honestly I have too much to think about right now so cheerio.

crazyH Wed 28-Oct-26 22:33:51

You wanna move on to mumsnet ……..

Ilovecandy12 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:25:35

I’m a real human being though

Wyllow3 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:23:54

I suspect a crude AI here.

The bot will of course deny it.

I suggest, if you are for real, asking on mumsnet where people are your contemporaries age wise.

Ilovecandy12 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:17:55

What do you think. Do u think it’s fine or no?

Gran22boys Wed 28-Oct-26 22:17:48

Why don’t you ask younger people?

Ilovecandy12 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:16:48

Really why

Oreo Wed 28-Oct-26 22:15:51

I think it’s fine.

Ilovecandy12 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:11:26

I just wanna know what you think about this?

Oreo Wed 28-Oct-26 22:06:02

What do you want us to say?

Oreo Wed 28-Oct-26 22:05:14

Many young people don’t have a job at all, and very many are still living at home at your age.

Fallingstar Wed 28-Oct-26 22:04:11

I really don’t know what to think. What matters is what you think about your situation. People live all kinds of different lives there is no one size fits all.
So if you think your life is fine the way it is then it is fine the way it is. If not then you need to look at how you can do things differently.

Oreo Wed 28-Oct-26 22:03:50

It doesn’t matter what older people on this forum think, it’s your life.

Ilovecandy12 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:02:35

I’m not really sure.
What do you think?

Ilovecandy12 Wed 28-Oct-26 22:02:05

But I wanna hear your opinion on this?

MollyNew Wed 28-Oct-26 21:57:09

What has prompted your question? Do you think you're "stuck" or has someone suggested you are? You are an adult and can make your own choices and decisions about how you live your life. I agree with Cossy on this.

Cossy Wed 28-Oct-26 21:50:43

If you’re happy with your life and your routine, then that’s great.

If not, then change it.

Oreo Wed 28-Oct-26 21:48:21

Sounds like a nice peaceful life to me.