About 3 years ago I got suspicious of my husband having an affair, my gut instinct picked up on it. I had two woman on the radar but one more than the other, I eventually asked him and of course he laughed and denied it. I have had severe depression ever since, he hasn't done anything to help, he just shouts at me. I've been to councelling, relate but nothing helped. I used to be friends on Facebook with one of them, every day she would put one post up and it hinted at something that happened in our home, it realy messed with my head and I told him but it carried on, I also noticed that she was on watsap , she would come on when he was on his own, I blocked her on facebook but I can't help keep looking, she puts it public so I can see. He's not on Facebook so he says and it's not on his phones, he has a personal and work but I've always believed he had another phone.... he leaves the other two laying around. He travels all around the southern end of the uk, sometimes staying away, or gets up early and leaves at 4, she's on watsap at that time. I've truly lost my head over this and don't know what to do, we've been married 34 years, we've had a realy good marriage, I would never have thought he would have gone off! Now something else has been thrown into the mix, my in laws are ill and they've asked us to move abroad to help take care of them, now I thought this was the answer to my problem but she had to make reference to it on fb, now I think she's coming with us, she's not married, no kids, she has spent her whole life with married men.... she told me years ago that it was a laugh winding the wives up and here I am and she's doing the same to me, she owns properties so I think she may buy one out there maybe to live or rent so she has reason to go there. I don't know what I'm doing, I have had to 're home my pets, I have to say goodbye to our grandkids and leave the house that I have lived in all my life. I feel beaten down and just so fed up, I can't talk to friends and family because they got fed up of listening to me. I still don't know if he is or isn't, he said it's all coincedence, he has said some things that obviously he's got the wrong person. He said that if I leave I'm going to regret it coz then I will find out that he's not playing away and that's what I'm scared of, I could be messing up a perfectly good marriage but on the other hand I do know my husband and I know for a fact that he would never admit to anything! All the things I was afraid of losing by him having an affair, I am losing anyway by moving away. I know what people will say, leave him, get away but honestly it's not as easy as that, I don't work, I have a tiny amount for emergency and none of my family or friends want to put me up for a night or two! Oh dear how did it get to this. Thanks for listening, I sometimes feel like there's no one out there!!!
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