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Catholic schools.

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Greatnan Wed 16-Nov-11 07:12:08

Exactly my experience, bagitha. It is easy for us though, we probably just feel rage that the abuse was covered up for so long and that the church still does not seem to be able accept its responsibilies to the victims.
I feel a little sorry for catholics, though - it must be very hard when you have been brought up to have such reverence for any institution or group of people and find they have feet of clay. In Eire, there has been a huge drop in attendance at mass. Could this be the end of the church? Or will people go on supporting it, come what may?

bagitha Wed 16-Nov-11 06:37:27

Yep. Lost all of it in my youth. Not through abuse, I hasten to add, but because I never had any faith in the first place. Looked at the communion host (wafer/cracker) when I was seven and we were being indoctrinated about transubstantiation and decided I didn't believe a word of it, even though I wanted to at that age so that I would be a "good person". At sixteen I questioned the infallibility of the Pope during an RE lesson and the teacher told me I wasn't a christian. That's that sorted, then. <dusts hands>

Greatnan Tue 15-Nov-11 22:59:01

I believe there has been a sharp falling-off in the number of parents applying for places in Catholic schools for their children, in spite of the much vaunted academic achievements. The response of the church to the child abuse scandal has severely dented people's trust - the latest way of avoiding paying the compensation so richly deserved is to say that the Church is not the employer of priests. The Church hires them, fires them and provides 'benefits in kind' in the shape of board and lodging. Some dioceses in Canada tried to declare themselves bankrupt in order to avoid making payment. This is not the kind of contrition and reparation that the Church promised.
It must be terrible to be a priest, monk or nun and to know that you are viewed with suspicion, no matter how innocent you may be. If you are a Catholic, have you lost any of your trust in the Church?