I was married in a civil ceremony and I was glad when gay couples were allowed to have their partnerships recognised in the same way with the same legal conditions. I don't go to church, either.
But I don't understand why it is up to the various governments to allow gay marriages.
If the Church defines marriage as the union of one man and one woman, surely the only institution that can change that definition is the church?
I can understand the anguish of Christian gay couples who would like their union to be blessed in church.
But why is it any business of the government to interfere with what is essentially a theological question? Should equality legislation override theology?
[ducks and runs for cover]