What Ifs

To thine own self be true!

Kindness is everything.

If in doubt, do the kind thing.

Treat others as you would want to be treated yourself.

Just take each day as it comes and don't worry about the future.

Don't have any regrets.

Don't become cynical. If someone hurts you, trust the next person, not everyone's the same.

Be the better person.

If you get the chance to sit it out or dance....I hope you dance.

Love yourself, trust your instincts, always be kind, and enjoy life.

Love that one Anya, I dedicated it to my DD when she was 21 (cheesy but who cares?)

That's lovely Anya

It is lovely. I wish someone had said that to me.

However - I always went with when and mishaps maxims, be kind and treat others as you would wish to be treated. It worked, because when they did that thing at school that they all seem to have to do nowadays, when everyone has to find something nice to say about each person in the class, both of them came back with dozens of slips of paper saying how kind they were. I felt very proud of them.

No experience - good or bad - is ever wasted

Smile it costs nothing

Make sure the dream you are following is your own

And I'd add granniefinn's to it as well