Eloethan- again, your post mirrors what I'd like to say. Some of us learnt very very young that religions is divisive, not uniting. If you live in a close-knit community where only one religion, or close denominations, co-exist- it may be difficult to see this. Of course we are adults and can now choose, which religion or none. However, with some religions/denominations even nowadays it can be very difficult- as it will bean ostracization from the family and community. Imagine becoming, say, a Muslim convert in a Utah community of Mormons, or a Plains community of Amish, or a Christian convert in a community in Saudi Arabia? Or even amon Christians, a Protestant in a small Rep of Ireland community, or a CAtholic in the North in an Ulser Unionist community!
And as said, it is not that long ago, even when I was young, that Catholics and Protestants here were at 'war'- and living totally separate lives, with their own choir, brass band, clubs and the like- and people hardly talking to each other. I lived this, when I was young, a divorced protestant mother, and a catholic father- ostracised by both families and communities. I am so grateful for that, acutally, it makes you think and re-assess what it is all about, and makes you strong and stand on your own 2 feet- but comforting it is not. Same for DH's family but only x 1000 in Apartheid South Africa. Apartheid was dreamed up by Christians, for Christians, the Dutch Reformed Church and the Huguenots protestants, btw. Nasty bunch!
I do not understand religious tolerance, really, as said before. I you absolutely and totally without doubt, believe that your God and only your God will lead to salvation and eternal life- how can you be tolerant of other religions- will presumably, by inference, will not? Religious communities are so comforting and embracing- as long as you belong to them or are potential recruits- and exclusive of the rest.