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Stephen Fry on meeting God ...

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Grannyknot Sat 31-Jan-15 15:52:33

...and what he would ask him or her:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-suvkwNYSQo

(The interviewer's reaction is priceless).

soontobe Sat 31-Jan-15 19:18:28

The things that happen to non christians are indiscriminate I think. I can post a link if anyone wanted me to.

granjura Sat 31-Jan-15 19:20:41

What about Christian children- should they have to suffer so, to test the faith of their parents? What sort of Father would do that to little children?

Ana Sat 31-Jan-15 19:23:24

I'm not getting into this any further, other than to say that it's no wonder people are turned off religion in any shape or form if they're fed the sort of rubbish that granjura was as a child.

One can believe in a God or Supreme being without blaming him/her/it for all the ills of the world.

Mishap Sat 31-Jan-15 19:24:28

I remember a televised interview with a survivor of the tsunami. He had lost all his family and thousands had died, and he said that he thought it had happened because god was testing his faith. Blimey! - kill thousands to test one man's faith - it almost felt arrogant, though I did not feel one could criticise how someone might rationalise the unrationalisable.

Reconciling innocent suffering and a world that is predicated on kill or be killed with a loving god is a step too far for many people. Certainly for me.

Soutra Sat 31-Jan-15 19:26:39

Oh for goodness sake!! You cannot discriminate between suffering experienced by Christians and that by non-Christians and somehow imply that God is partial!! I have never heard such unmitigated tosh! Were I Jewish with grandparents or parents who died in the Holocaust, or Aztecs massacred by the Conquistadores or an atheist whose entire family had been wiped out by a natural catastrophe I would take personal exception to this suggestion soontobe, but as it is all I can say is echo John McEnroe "You cannot be serious?"

rosequartz Sat 31-Jan-15 19:30:16

Quite right, Mishap. That was an arrogant attitude. What was so special about him any more than many of the other equally special people who died?

Who is to say that the gods in which (whom?) the Greeks fervently believed were any less real? Or the Romans, or any other religion?
Why should a god send suffering to a little child to test it's parents' faith?

If you believe it to be true then it will be true to you, no matter how irrational.

The more posts I read on christianity the less I believe.

FarNorth Sat 31-Jan-15 19:34:03

When a relative of mine was going through some very difficult circumstances, a well-meaning christian told her to read the Book of Job.
That book is the story of god allowing the devil to do all sorts of vile things to Job, including killing off all his family, in order to prove that Job would still not lose his faith in god.
Indeed, Job did not lose his faith and explained to his friends that it is not possible for mere mortals to understand the ways of god, that vastly superior being who created all that exists.
God rewarded Job by supplying him with new lands, animals and family (!) so that was all right wasn't it?
My relative did not find that a useful story.

Mishap Sat 31-Jan-15 19:38:21

Interesting point Ana - I agree that a supreme being could not be held responsible for all the ills of the world, but there are plenty of ills in the basic blueprint that cannot possibly be assigned to human action.

Soon - I have to be honest that I find your last post beyond all possibility of comprehension. Some of your posts are kind and thoughtful and appreciated I am sure, but this is quite beyond the pale. I do not usually criticise others' posts even if I disagree with them but this is a step too far. I think you must inhabit a different planet.

Eloethan Sat 31-Jan-15 19:40:14

granjura I don't see why inflicting pain and suffering on an adult is any more justifiable than inflicting it on a child.

soontobe Is the "devil" responsible for earthquakes, plagues, droughts, etc.? And why would a god create a devil to wreak such terrible, cruel things on the world if that god has the power to create a safe, peaceful and happy world?

Why not just say that good and bad events occur in life and it is purely arbitrary as to whom those good and bad things happen to, rather than, as in the example granjura gave, saying "I was saved because God looked after me".

rosequartz Sat 31-Jan-15 19:41:29

So indiscriminate things happen to non-christians?
I will tell my vicar friend that, he is still grieving the unexpected death of his dear wife.

Grannyknot Sat 31-Jan-15 19:42:38

eloethan I understood what you meant. I just wanted to clarify that my intention was not to hurt or insult. I do need to rail at fate at the moment, and seeing that helped.

rosequartz Sat 31-Jan-15 19:44:18

I think that if Stephen Fry is an atheist he just needed to say that he will not be meeting God as he does not exist.
But it would not have been such an interesting interview!

Soutra Sat 31-Jan-15 19:48:33

soontobe, things happen to people.
Some of those things are within man's control and are rooted in evil, even when the perpretators claim to be doing it in the name of their religion.
Some of those things are outwith our control -but sometimes insurance companies find it expedient to designate those "acts of God" however no one in their right mind believes that he sends these disasters to "punish" mankind or "test" their faith.
Your assertion that indiscriminate things happen to (only) non- Christians would be laughable were it not so offensive .

rosequartz Sat 31-Jan-15 19:48:52

Sometimes you just want to scream that it is so unfair, Grannyknot.

Best wishes to all your friends who are going through these illnesses flowers

However, I will just say that, although I sound like an unbeliever (more an agnostic), many years of indoctrination (for want of a better word) has made me pray instinctively to the BVM and those things I prayed for have come about.

Penstemmon Sat 31-Jan-15 21:48:23

If there is an omnipotent being that humans call God/Allah etc. then that being is having a laugh at human expense. God/Allah etc is a sadistic being as having the power to give & take life they create disease,drought, flood and famine etc. which causes indiscriminate suffering to believers and non-believers alike. That is not a deity I can respect.

I believe that the majority of humans , if they found they had that kind of power, would use it to eradicate those natural catastrophes. I am not sure why God/Allah etc would choose not too.

soontobe Sat 31-Jan-15 22:17:28

It is not indiscrimate to believers.

To non believers, yes indiscriminate. Most of it from the devil.

soontobe Sat 31-Jan-15 22:24:12

Soutra. I think I read somewhere that you said that you are a christian.
Yet you seem to dispute a lot of the bible. So I am left confused by that.

Soutra Sat 31-Jan-15 22:29:10

No soontobe I do not believe you have heard me comment favourably or otherwise on the Bible, what I do dispute would be some of the interpretations of it you choose to post.

soontobe Sat 31-Jan-15 22:38:56

So you are a christian?
But I dont think I have seen you agree with anything in the bible. Which translation of the bible do you read, if you read any?

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 31-Jan-15 22:47:07

Sometimes I agree with Stephen Fry. Sometimes I hate God. Sometimes I despair, like tonight when they said on the news the Japanese journalist has been beheaded by IS.

But then I tell myself to grow up. You are thinking like a spoilt child, blaming a parent. Maybe God just couldn't manage a perfect world. Maybe he had to leave some of the work for us to do. Maybe he is not an "all-poweful" God. And maybe some of it is our own fault.

Who knows?

sad

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 31-Jan-15 22:48:42

But, if he doesn't exist, why doesn't he let me go?

I don't understand it at all.

Mishap Sat 31-Jan-15 22:56:18

I understand and know nothing. Like everyone. We grope our way through this world as best we may - and hope to do not harm.

I have heard the spoiled child/parent argument - and it is fine if you dismiss the idea that god is omniscient, benign etc.

soontobe Sat 31-Jan-15 22:56:46

Who are you quoting jingl?

soontobe Sat 31-Jan-15 22:59:13

I googled the phrase in case it was a song, but I cant find it.

Penstemmon Sat 31-Jan-15 23:00:57

Conflict, war and other human disasters are entirely the fault of human beings.sad

Drought, flood, earthquake and diseases etc are natural disasters but some are caused or made worse by poor stewardship of the natural environment by humans. Super humans: gods or devils, plays no part.