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Anniebach Wed 18-Nov-15 14:17:49

After the horrors in Paris and all the anger, hatred and grief expressed, I toddled off to a Buddist retreat house yesterday , it was so healing

Ana Fri 20-Nov-15 16:11:37

who are out...

Ana Fri 20-Nov-15 16:11:10

They're allowed to shoot any Welshmen who's out after dark in Chester, apparently. I don't know about Welshwomen though...

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 20-Nov-15 16:07:19

Why? Do ruffians come out after dark and set about Welsh people? shock

Anniebach Fri 20-Nov-15 13:38:01

I love Chester at that time, but being Welsh I have to leave before darkness falls !

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 20-Nov-15 13:31:22

Yes, I suppose it would Anniebach. grin Have a few days in a nice big town? Xmas lights are very cheering. smile

Anniebach Fri 20-Nov-15 13:15:16

I know, but I do apologise if I make an error

Ana Fri 20-Nov-15 12:59:38

They're not compulsory.

Anniebach Fri 20-Nov-15 12:58:50

Ooooops, forgot to add a smiley

Anniebach Fri 20-Nov-15 09:53:39

Best not areas in Wales where there is sheep farming , be like taking coal to Newcastle

Ana Thu 19-Nov-15 23:08:29

Tee hee! grin

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 19-Nov-15 22:53:06

You could take a recorder.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 19-Nov-15 22:52:30

Wouldn't a few days in a nice cottage be as good? Somewhere in Wales. With sheep. And hills. You know - countryside?

Why is it necessary to have the doom and gloom reverential atmosphere?

Luckygirl Thu 19-Nov-15 22:44:58

I spent a week on Iona making music - it was splendid and I remember it with great joy - but the journey was a bit of a drag of course.

Jacquiwren Thu 19-Nov-15 22:30:54

There's a Buddist centre in Dumfries and Galloway, hold courses and retreats. Not been but will do one day! Google Samye Ling.

Ana Thu 19-Nov-15 21:01:53

Might be, but that might be part of it. If someone's very stressed in their day-to-day life a bit of boredom could be welcome...

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 19-Nov-15 20:59:27

Wouldn't it be boring?

Ana Thu 19-Nov-15 20:48:41

I'd love to go on a retreat. It would have to be for more than just a day though! At least a week or two - a month would be ideal...(commitments allowing, of course.)

Stansgran Thu 19-Nov-15 20:44:22

I met a rather splendid lady on the train to Oban in the summer. She was heading for an annual retreat on Iona. I keep promising myself I would follow in her footsteps. She had been going for over 20 years and she was in her 80s

starbird Thu 19-Nov-15 19:57:56

I was trying to make the point that the reaction was over the top compared to Kenya in April and Beirut the day before Paris. Where were the flags for those events? As at 31/8 the UN estimate that 2,500 refugees died trying to reach Europe so far this year. There is no end to the tragedies and they all matter, we are all one family on this earth, my point was that the media is over emphasising one event at the extent of others, and when the facts are missing they waste columns of paper on speculation. Whilst I want to hear how it happened, until the details emerge I would rather read about the many other things - good and bad - going on in the world which at any other time would be in the headlines.

Anniebach Thu 19-Nov-15 11:36:50

Yes retreats are different, just you and your thoughts

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 19-Nov-15 11:04:48

I always come away from a Sunday morning service feeling very determined to be holy saintly a good girl. It wears off by 4 o'clock.

But I expect retreats are different.

Teetime Thu 19-Nov-15 11:01:12

There is a very good retreat near here(Melton Mowbray) called Launde Abbey - its very well attended C of E but you don't have to be. I have never been to a retreat but my friend goes regularly and finds it refreshing and uplifting.

etheltbags1 Thu 19-Nov-15 08:51:16

As Roseq suggests, yoga is wonderful. I did yoga many years ago and enjoyed it, however you cannot get a beginner yoga class in the north east. There are either classes that you must join and just 'catch up' with the rest of the class or private and expensive 'one to one' classes.

The one I went to was all beginners and we progressed from breathing through to some of the more difficult poses. A couple of years ago I tried the local gym who ran classes but everyone could literally tie themselves in knots and I spent most of the time sitting out as I just couldn't do it.
I am not particularly agile and would need a beginners class if anyone in the Newcastle area knows of one please let me know.

durhamjen Wed 18-Nov-15 23:22:43

We used to go to a Buddhist retreat in Yorkshire, Kilnwick Percy Hall, I think it was, near Pocklington. Just for the day, for talks, but thinking about it, it would be nice to go and stay. You do not need to join in, but it would be a shame not to.
Some of our guests at the guest house in York were buddhists, often on their way there or back.

Anniebach Wed 18-Nov-15 22:57:23

Indiana, i am very fortunate they allow me to join them for a day visit.

Merlotgran, I so benefit from time in a retreat but not enough to have a hysterectomy , sorry but you did give me a giggle

Rosequartz, I think a meditave form of yoga is an excellent suggestion.