My point (going back to include my previous posts as well as these latest ones) is that in most animals mating is primarily initiated by unconscious and unintentional signals that the female is at the most fertile point in her oestral cycle These signals tell the male that now would be the best (or for most, the only) time to mate and ensure that her offspring carry his genes. The signal can be smell, taste (giraffe males are forever licking the female's rear to check), appearance (the chimp's red behind) or behaviour.
Animals only exhibit these signals at this time, and for most animals, that is the only time that they mate. Fertility and receptiveness go together. If an animal is not at her fertile phase, she does not display that she is ready, and she is not interested, neither is the male interested because the right button has not been pressed for him.
Human beings do not have this clear timing of fertility and receptiveness. Sexual activity can take place at any time of the month, whether or not it coincides with fertility.
But female human beings as well as other female animals still give unconscious and unintentional signals that they are ready for sex, and the bodies of male human beings respond to those signals. They include flushing of the skin of the neck and chest, and widening pupils.
(Centuries ago, girls put belladonna drops in their eyes to widen the pupils and rubbed red petals on the skin to give it that blush. The effect aimed for these days is much the same - rosy skin and wide eyes.)
Human beings are still animals in their instincts. That is not a condemnation or an accusation of basic beastliness, but the fact that they respond to their hormones just as much as animals do.
Every generation of young people has the same instinct to be attractive to the opposite sex, and every generation faces the same conflict between that instinct and whatever the current standards of sexual activity are.
We can and should train our boys to respect the decision of the girls they court on how far they follow the drive of those hormones , but there could inevitably be some who are tempted beyond their powers of control, for whatever reason. Girls also need to be trained to be aware of that, and to know what power they have and when to turn down the wattage. The self-control should not all lie with the young men.
I think that is what the article was saying about toxic masculinity and toxic femininity, though I don't like those terms.