Goodness sake. There are very reasonable rules on this site (although they are a little difficult to track down) www.gransnet.com/info/netiquette
The site is lightly moderated.
If you feel uneasy about a post, report it and let the moderators take a look. (not worth agonising - that is the moderators job)
And then treat them with some respect and don't expect them to explain the ins and outs of what has happened to all and sundry.
If you get a post deleted and your wrist gently slapped (and its happened to lots of us) shrug, learn something if appropriate, and move on.
If you think you have made a faux pas or a post you have just made makes you feel uneasy, report it yourself and ask for its deletion.
Remember anyone in the world can see your posts, including your friends, relatives and other people who may identify you.
Nobody makes you belong to this site.
What more is there?
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