I am expecting this post, probably the thread, to be deleted by GNHQ but while I have a possible opening here goes.
I have over the past few days been called a racist, a bully, should be ashamed of myself, know how to play semantic games, a past master of drawing fine lines between what I say and what I mean and what some other posters think I mean.
So my question is:- How does Gransnet work ?
Time line:-
A poster withdraws a post which called a poster a racist, subsequently reposts what she said but it is not the 'exact' words and 'changed' to make it look as though it was not a direct accusation.
The poster called a racist reposts the 'actual' words to show the truth but is reported and called shameful, a bully and a racist AGAIN!
Outcome, the original post which was withdrawn by a poster has been altered at a later date but remains on the thread, an untruth. The poster to whom the original post and subsequent untruthful post was made to has her post deleted why, because she wrote the truth using ' factual' content.
If you delete this post GNHQ I will be disgusted in the whole process and the ease with which you can allow a poster to be shabbily treated and worst of all not even allowed to defend their own reputation against being called a bully and a racist.
It appears to me the process of deleting posts causes more harm than good but in the wrong direction. It allows nasty,
Vile comments to be seen before removal but the offended party has ' absolutely no way of defending themselves'.
I am sorry but I wonder if the word 'enabler' is not a fair word to use as the balance of power remains with poster/posters who have attacked, continue to attack the poor b----r trying desperately to use 'factual information' for others to see.
Shame on me, I don't think so!
Shame on those who get you to delete anything and everything that can clearly prove their words .
PLEASE LEAVE POSTS IN SITU FOR OTHER POSTERS TO ASSESS FOR THEMSELVES WHAT HAPPENED.
What time do you get up and go to bed?
