Dear Gnet,
Is there any reason why you can't put some sort of indicator on the 'inbox' button to let users know that there is an unread message waiting in it for them?
I keep missing PMs because although you very kindly send me email notification that I have one/some, my email client has a tendency to put your emails into my Spam folder , which I don't always check ...
Mumsnet manage to put a star on the button if there are new messages in one's inbox; can't you do something similar?
I should feel good about it but....
What the younger generation missed! Do we?