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Troll hunting and thread deletions

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 18-Aug-20 22:29:37

Hello
We wanted to clear a few things up:
1) We don't allow troll hunting on the forums. If you are worried someone may not be genuine, please email us directly or report any concerning posts to us. We will deal with it. Making accusations on the forums is not helpful and could, if incorrect, lead to possibly vulnerable people feeling victimised. We will have to delete threads that accuse other users of being trolls.
2) PMs. We take a very dim view of this being abused. If you receive an unwanted or unkind PM please report it to us. We can take a look and deal with it. You are also able to block other users so that they are no longer able to PM you. Please use this. And apologies in advance if this does happen to you. It's not nice and not what Gransnet is about at all.
3) Despite what it feels like tonight hmm we do not enjoy deleting threads. We have a handful of guidelines, all there with the purpose of making the threads better, and more welcoming for users. We are doing our best and rely on you to report things to us that seem concerning, so thank you for caring so much about the site and reporting anything that looks suspicious.

Thank you
GNHQ

Namsnanny Wed 19-Aug-20 09:58:12

A sock puppet is an identity used in line for the purpose of deception

More like Lambchop than sooty and sweep then merlotgran wink?

Marydoll Wed 19-Aug-20 09:55:40

Ann, I don't have a Facebook account and receive and send very few PMs, so not guilty!
By a snapshot, I meant that I suspect you don't read every post do you?
It was a series of strange, unsolicited PMs from someone who I didn't really know, which made me start to wonder. I kept quiet for months, until I got another one last week.
I was very well trained in internet safety, so it niggled away at me that all was not right.

I take it you didn't see the last comment directed at you you on the deleted thread because you said the poster was annoying.

I do not not want to discuss this anymore. Speculation leads to people being falsely accused and of course, everyone is dying to know the gory details.
That info will not be coming from me. It has all been quite upsetting to say the least.

seacliff Wed 19-Aug-20 09:52:19

I am sorry people feel left out, and can understand it. It makes you feel left out if you have no idea what has been going on, has happened to me plenty of times.

I happened for once last night, to be here when it was all kicking off. People were putting one post up, not awful at all, and it was immediately deleted, within less than a minute! It happened several times. HQ were on the rampage. These were all in response to a certain poster(s).

A long term (one of the originals) GNetter got some horrible pms from the "lady" mentioned above, re the situation, and when she tried to discuss it on the forum, those comments were also blitzed.

The feeling was, if you are so cowardly as to have a go at someone by pm instead of on the forum, that is pretty disgusting. All a storm in a teacup really, we get these troublemakers from time to time.

Orangerose Wed 19-Aug-20 09:46:31

Charleygirl5

If not Orangerose maybe you could account for your actions?

Who do you think you are? I account to nobody.

annsixty Wed 19-Aug-20 09:40:38

Marydoll
I am very perplexed as to why I only saw a very small snapshot yesterday.
What didn't I see and why?
This just reinforces what many members have posred and why many leave, feeling left out, there is another GN that is carried on in PM's and in closed Facebook groups.
This is making me feel very sad and uneasy, both personally, and on behalf of many hundreds of other members.

Chewbacca Wed 19-Aug-20 09:39:49

Can't remember who it happened to now but quire a while ago a GN member received a rather unpleasant pm. So they copied and pasted the full unexpurgated message, complete with who had sent it, and posted it on the relevant thread.

seacliff Wed 19-Aug-20 09:37:58

Absolutely Lucca, as happened yesterday evening.

Charleygirl5 Wed 19-Aug-20 09:36:36

If not Orangerose maybe you could account for your actions?

Lucca Wed 19-Aug-20 09:33:43

I still find it extraordinary that there are gransnetters who send nasty PMs. Why would you ?

Orangerose Wed 19-Aug-20 09:30:57

I haven’t been banned and I’m certainly NOT a troll.

Marydoll Wed 19-Aug-20 08:54:35

It is entirely possible, Ann. It's very easy to have multiple email addresses to generate multiple accounts.
However, the majority of posters are honest and decent and wouldn't consider it.
It takes a very devious person to contemplate this.

I'm sure many posters will be upset by the idea of this. I'm not upset, but angry that vulnerable posters may be taken in.

You only saw a small snapshot yesterday.

It's best to leave GNHQ to sort this out, now that it has been highlighted. I'm glad it has all come to a head, albeit in a very unpleasant manner. It has been worrying me for weeks.

aggie Wed 19-Aug-20 08:48:50

Some posts / threads do have my eyebrows getting tangled with my fringe ! I don’t add to them , having been reprimanded and deleted , much to my children’s hilarity

annsixty Wed 19-Aug-20 08:45:41

Sorry that should have read, one was deleted, not banned.

annsixty Wed 19-Aug-20 08:44:46

One was banned because the OP named someone who sent her nasty PM’s.
This ai against The rules.
It could have been dealt with by blocking the sender, reporting it to GNHQ who would have banned the person in question.

However if what I am reading is true, that person may be on here under many different names, something I believed wasn’t possible.

Marydoll Wed 19-Aug-20 08:42:08

The problem isn't frequently changing user names, Grandad, it's having multiple user names at the same time.
Why would anyone feel the need to do this??

You can be anyone you want on an anonymous online forum, things are not always what they seem.
Years of training children and teachers on internet safety have taught me that.

Curlywhirly Wed 19-Aug-20 08:30:15

I must pay more attention - I haven't noticed any threads being deleted! If one disappears from the active screen, I just presume no one has commented and it has slipped down the list out of view. I have to say that I am very gullible and tend to believe all I see, but even I question some threads; there have been some really far-fetched OPs and as some have explained they tend to appear when the children are on school holidays! The little darlings really need to get out more ?

Lucca Wed 19-Aug-20 08:30:09

Back of a. ....wardrobe.

Lucca Wed 19-Aug-20 08:29:18

I seem to remember Brian Moore commentating on rugby matches, if there was an argument , he would say something about “handbags at dawn”. Sounds like this has happened here, all a bit of a storm in a teacup really and maybe best forgotten .like a misguided purchase ...pushed to the back a wardrobe

MawB2 Wed 19-Aug-20 08:26:58

Grandad1943

The thing that has struck me over the last few months would be that some forum members undoubtedly change their user name more often than they change their underwear. ?

If you are including me in that Grandad , first of all may I remind you that if a member deregisters for whatever reason, they cannot have their old user name back - hence my addition of “2”.
Secondly the “frequency of changing underwear” is a cheap jibe and unworthy of you.

Lucca Wed 19-Aug-20 08:24:51

Well downtoearth if we don’t know which ones you were watching .......

downtoearth Wed 19-Aug-20 08:15:11

Morning all
I had been watching from the sidelines and wondered,the two threads have dissapeared am I right in thinking that those where the ones removed.

Grandad1943 Wed 19-Aug-20 08:06:32

The thing that has struck me over the last few months would be that some forum members undoubtedly change their user name more often than they change their underwear. ?

kittylester Wed 19-Aug-20 07:47:37

And, the threads have gone completely from Active - does that usually happen?

I serious thought I had lost the plot when I went back to look for it.

kircubbin2000 Wed 19-Aug-20 07:46:45

Typical! As usual I've missed all the excitement.No idea what happened or how you knew.

kittylester Wed 19-Aug-20 07:40:15

Apparently, they are not all they seem to be kate!!

More seriously - I dont really know what happened last night but, on the face of it, surely anyone should have the right to call out another poster who sends nasty PMS?

Can Lara or someone from GNHQ tell me if this is specifically against the rules.

My concern is that someone who is at a vulnerable point could be really affected by getting such a PM and we all know that bullies have an innate sense for attacking weakness.

Obviously, they picked the wrong person when they picked on phoenix.

If that's what happened.confused