I am sorry people feel left out, and can understand it. It makes you feel left out if you have no idea what has been going on, has happened to me plenty of times.
I happened for once last night, to be here when it was all kicking off. People were putting one post up, not awful at all, and it was immediately deleted, within less than a minute! It happened several times. HQ were on the rampage. These were all in response to a certain poster(s).
A long term (one of the originals) GNetter got some horrible pms from the "lady" mentioned above, re the situation, and when she tried to discuss it on the forum, those comments were also blitzed.
The feeling was, if you are so cowardly as to have a go at someone by pm instead of on the forum, that is pretty disgusting. All a storm in a teacup really, we get these troublemakers from time to time.