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Has anyone on GN got the right to give private information about you?

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Fleurpepper Mon 12-Dec-22 17:02:28

Surely not. People on GN should have the right to anonimity, unless they choose to divulge any private information, be it about profession, locality, ethnicity, or whatever.

Secondly, should any information given in a PM be fair game to share to other members? Surely not.

Doodledog Sun 18-Dec-22 18:43:58

I'm not threatening GNHQ. There isn't any need. They remember what's happened in the past and presumably have record of who is on a final warning etc.

Maybe, but you are still behaving like a self-appointed Head Girl, and there's no need if you think people will remember without you bringing it up. Obviously it's up to you what you post, but the double standards are outrageous.

MerylStreep Sun 18-Dec-22 18:43:16

SmileLess
It looks like it’s hanging on by it’s fingertips to me.

Lucca Sun 18-Dec-22 18:43:12

Smileless2012

It stands for Deny, Attack and Reverse Victim and Offender Lucca.

Thank you. Every day a school day eh !

This is possibly the most ridiculous thread ever, I’d almost prefer the in depth discussion of dishcloths of blessed memory….

Smileless2012 Sun 18-Dec-22 18:36:04

That picture reminds me of the tree herders from Lord of the Rings.

Smileless2012 Sun 18-Dec-22 18:34:17

It stands for Deny, Attack and Reverse Victim and Offender Lucca.

Lucca Sun 18-Dec-22 18:30:58

Who or what is DARVO .?

GagaJo Sun 18-Dec-22 18:26:00

Doodledog

GagaJo

MerylStreep

There’s only so many times you can pull the victim card. This is it.

Ah, a moderator. Just in the nick of time!

Again, are you serious?

How is it ok for you to tell people what to post, to let the thread lie, and to threaten them with reminders of warnings from HQ, yet not ok for MerylStreep to comment on the incessant cries of victim from VS. What's the difference?

I'm not threatening GNHQ. There isn't any need. They remember what's happened in the past and presumably have record of who is on a final warning etc.

tickingbird Sun 18-Dec-22 18:19:33

That’s the second time that tree’s been posted on different threads - coincidence or what?🤔

VioletSky Sun 18-Dec-22 15:58:43

Me when the mud slinging starts 🙃

BaBaBoom Sun 18-Dec-22 15:35:05

Doodledog @ 13.42 it was the 3rd option what done it.

Joseanne Sun 18-Dec-22 15:28:06

I don't think the thread needed to be closed down but a reminder to all [to be nice!] might have been good. 😉

Doodledog Sun 18-Dec-22 15:23:13

MerylStreep

GagaJo
I can assure you that if I was a moderator this thread wouldn’t have got to this stage.

Closing down threads because you don’t like Some People speaking their minds is more akin to censorship than moderation.

Callistemon21 Sun 18-Dec-22 15:18:04

MerylStreep

GagaJo
I can assure you that if I was a moderator this thread wouldn’t have got to this stage.

👏👏👏

Joseanne Sun 18-Dec-22 15:11:21

In that case I'd rather like you as a moderator MerylStreep.

MerylStreep Sun 18-Dec-22 15:06:20

GagaJo
I can assure you that if I was a moderator this thread wouldn’t have got to this stage.

Blossoming Sun 18-Dec-22 14:22:18

an influx of silly comments

That would be me. A silly comment is a valid response too.

Doodledog Sun 18-Dec-22 14:14:31

GagaJo

MerylStreep

There’s only so many times you can pull the victim card. This is it.

Ah, a moderator. Just in the nick of time!

Again, are you serious?

How is it ok for you to tell people what to post, to let the thread lie, and to threaten them with reminders of warnings from HQ, yet not ok for MerylStreep to comment on the incessant cries of victim from VS. What's the difference?

AreWeThereYet Sun 18-Dec-22 14:09:44

Farzanah

I feel totally out in the cold on this one.
It’s a bit like Harry & Meghan’s Netflix to me. Much ado about very little, but has attracted excessive attention and comment.

Ditto. Not much in the way of peace and goodwill to all men around here.

GagaJo Sun 18-Dec-22 14:07:02

MerylStreep

There’s only so many times you can pull the victim card. This is it.

Ah, a moderator. Just in the nick of time!

MerylStreep Sun 18-Dec-22 13:49:12

There’s only so many times you can pull the victim card. This is it.

Doodledog Sun 18-Dec-22 13:42:19

Were you banned for sticking up for yourself, because of your MH, because of bullying, or what, VS? The story keeps shifting.

Again, there is no-one attacking you. You are the one saying you were going to ignore me, and that you are happy when you annoy x, as you are doing something right when that happens. It sounds a bit rubbish for x, but you said it, not them.

What is happening is that people are commenting on your posts - nothing new is being introduced, everything is based on what you have said on this thread alone. You decided to join in with the policing of the thread, and people have reacted to that, is all. There have been no personal remarks, and no 'bullying' or pile-ons. If you can point to any examples of any of those things, please do - the accusations are at best unfounded and at worst malicious.

Callistemon21 Sun 18-Dec-22 13:38:04

GagaJo

VioletSky

Anyway I'm offski before someone manages to get me banned again for sticking up for myself

Best to really. You never know what the in-crowd have planned

Really, this is getting ridiculous.

Let she who is without sin cast the first stone.

Elegran Sun 18-Dec-22 13:33:37

Rearrange these words to form a complete sentence Room, fight, a, can, empty, start. If you wait behind the door long enough, someone will pass by who you can jump out at and accuse of following you in and attacking you.

GagaJo Sun 18-Dec-22 13:29:45

VioletSky

Anyway I'm offski before someone manages to get me banned again for sticking up for myself

Best to really. You never know what the in-crowd have planned

Callistemon21 Sun 18-Dec-22 13:27:10

VioletSky

Anyway I'm offski before someone manages to get me banned again for sticking up for myself

No-one's going to bother to do that.

Although you seem to be trying to make it about you it's not about you.