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mollie Thu 13-Feb-14 16:52:07

The thing that would make the forum perfect would be a delete or edit button on our posts. I know it's possible, other forums have them, so GN, when you are updating could you consider this please? I sometimes post in haste and which I could edit or delete and start again and I doubt I'm the only one ...

POGS Thu 13-Feb-14 23:25:09

I agree with the point that a thread would be very hard to follow. As we see when GN HQ feel they need to delete a post.

If you have said something, stick by it, if you feel you have made a mistake, admit it and apologise. That way you gain respect and the thread keeps flowing.

mollie Fri 14-Feb-14 08:31:30

Frankly I don't accept the flow argument if only because its rare that my posts are commented on. That's not a gripe, it's a comment.

glammanana Fri 14-Feb-14 09:04:48

I use preview before I post and just check what I have written easy peasy grin

Soutra Fri 14-Feb-14 09:12:22

I don't see how a thread can be a discussion unless we are commenting on the posts of others! A series of posts in isolation would soon become very tedious and as for the typos, well I only ever spot mine after my comment has posted. Now an "oh sh*t"button that *would be usrful!

margaretm74 Fri 14-Feb-14 09:33:39

Only did it when I thought someone may be reading (not posting) and recognise themselves, which could cause problems for someone else (family).Not what I would do if I just changed my opinion re something

Was trying to help the OP who seemed upset, so I messaged her instead.

Gally Fri 14-Feb-14 10:04:38

I always preview my messages and check for mistakes, spelling or otherwise and very often delete them if I feel they are wrong or too self centred or just plain boring!

margaretm74 Fri 14-Feb-14 10:14:20

I do, by which time someone else has said the same thing as me a few posts ahead, only more intelligently, then I am guilty of not reading previous posts before replying.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 14-Feb-14 10:23:29

Gally! Don't do that! We're probably missing some really good posts. hmm

rosesarered Fri 14-Feb-14 10:27:21

I would like a means [other forums have them] whereby you can highlight in a 'box' within your own message box what another poster has said, so that it shows you are replying or agreeing with that particular post. Very useful.

Elegran Fri 14-Feb-14 10:38:22

They do that with webchats, why not with the threads?

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 14-Feb-14 11:06:18

You can't have a delete button and that's all there is to it! hmm

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 14-Feb-14 11:07:03

shock blush

Sorry!!

mollie Fri 14-Feb-14 12:01:43

Do you decide then Jingle?

Soutra Fri 14-Feb-14 12:39:32

Still don't see where this thread is going or even where it is coming from. If it is just a techie issue, have we had a response from GNHQ? Or is there something underlying it?

mollie Fri 14-Feb-14 12:52:32

I asked for a delete button, others said yay or nay, no comment from GNHQ.

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 18-Feb-14 10:52:49

We don't have buttons for people to delete or edit their posts for much the same reasons as Mumsnet (who don't have them either)

In a fast moving conversation it could cause all manner of problems if people suddenly edited their posts to change the nuance or the meaning. We appreciate that most people wouldn't do this anyway and would use it simply to correct those typos that somehow creep in when least expected (guilty as charged grin) - but as with a "real life" (ie spoken) conversation, both MNHQ and GNHQ feel it's better to leave it as what's said is said - and of course it's always possible to post again if you have spotted a typo (etc) that you want people to realise was unintentional.

As for deleting posts - if you realise that you have posted something that you are unhappy about for any reason you can let us know by reporting it immediately and we can withdraw it at your request. Actually we find that this is requested very rarely - but we are always happy to help when (for example) identity or integrity (etc again!) may be compromised.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 18-Feb-14 10:56:44

See. Told you.

Ana Tue 18-Feb-14 11:06:01

grin

JessM Tue 18-Feb-14 11:07:05

Yes quite right IMO. And there is always the option of apologising if we have posted in haste and given unintentional offence.

Aka Tue 18-Feb-14 11:37:28

Would still like a 'like' button.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 18-Feb-14 11:59:13

hmm want want want!

Ana Tue 18-Feb-14 12:05:52

I'm not quite sure what a 'like' button would achieve. Would the number of 'likes' per post be displayed? Would posters who never get any 'likes' feel unloved and unwanted? Would it spark a 'who's got the most' competition?

I know of one site where the number of 'likes' a member's received is recorded on their profile hmm

Elegran Tue 18-Feb-14 12:29:47

Perhaps they could add an "Edited to" paragraph to a post that someone changed their mind on, with the date edited, so that the original still stood? It could make the post rather long though.

Bellasnana Tue 18-Feb-14 13:02:21

I would appreciate a 'like' button too. There is one on Facebook and I don't think it has ever occurred to me to feel unloved if I don't get any likes! There are lots of posts on here that I like because I agree with them or they make me laugh, but I don't feel like posting a 'here, here' or whatever, so it would be nice to be able to click 'like'.
As usual, you can't please everyone though hmm

merlotgran Tue 18-Feb-14 13:21:57

I think a 'like' button would mean less people taking the trouble to post. Why bother commenting if you can just give a post the 'thumbs up?'

And you could end up with hundreds of 'likes' from lurkers. hmm