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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 24-Jul-15 13:19:44

The team at LEGO® would like to hear about the treats and rewards you give your grandchildren.

How do you like to reward or treat your grandchildren? Do you treat them with toys or maybe a day out? How often do you like to treat them? Are treats and rewards saved for special occasions or do you give them one every time you see them? How does treating/rewarding your grandchildren compare with how you treated/rewarded your children?

However you like to treat/reward your grandchildren, LEGO® would love to hear about it!

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wallers5 Sun 26-Jul-15 11:40:29

I love getting them books & occasionally comics but also Lego which lasts & gives hours of fun.

jumike2 Sun 26-Jul-15 11:34:57

I find little jobs around the house and garden for my grandson he is rewarded with 2 pounds which he puts in his moneybox and uses it to buy things such as presents for his mum or last year he saved it all for his holiday spening money .. i look at this as him learning that work brings rewards.

SewAddict Sun 26-Jul-15 11:26:58

I live at the seaside so when they visit treats are time on the beach, sometimes an ice cream or a trip to the pier and amusements. I also look for small treats like books in our local charity bookshop, which I take when I visit them. Dearer things are saved for Birthdays and Christmas when they love things like construction toys and art equipment. In the summer holidays when they come to stay I might treat them with a trip to a farm, castle, or the zoo - normally something they have chosen. Our own children were treated in the same way.

lindat4683 Sun 26-Jul-15 11:21:06

We capture memories with a glow,
Every book is ours to know
A smile is a treasure That I keep
even when my grandchilds fast asleep.

Books are treasures when its cold,
Books are treasures when you are old,
They put a spring in a step,
So many books we have read.

williamsgwynfa Sun 26-Jul-15 11:18:15

My Dad takes my children to what he calls "The Friday Shop". After school on a Friday, Dad picks up my children from school and takes them to the little newsagents round the corner and buys them some sweets or a comic. Or in the case of Joseph, the little stickers of footballers that he can put in his sticker album. :D

dani4 Sun 26-Jul-15 11:14:02

I love taking my little grandson to the park, he's still a baby and loves to see the bright colours of the flowers and plants.

Grannyjacq1 Sun 26-Jul-15 11:12:05

Our grandson loves to visit castles!

Bernie1964 Sun 26-Jul-15 10:58:12

my grand daughters love it when we play together. I roll around the floor , jump on the bed, chase them around the house,make dens, play hairdressers and beauty parlours, sing songs and dance. the older one likes to play teachers but I'm very naughty and get told off a lot!
my relatives used to give me a tenner or sweets which I loved and still do !! (wink)

Bethshaw Sun 26-Jul-15 10:48:43

I like to buy clothes for my three grandchildren as I love shopping for cute little outfits and it helps my daughter as well. For example, my grandson loves his new Spider-Man swimming trunks and is looking forward to wearing them on holiday. He also loves Lego which I sometimes buy him for a present.

audidude27 Sun 26-Jul-15 10:47:05

I have 4 grandchildren from ages 4 to 8 and they are all very keen on building Lego (which we usually buy!)
The youngest loves to be read to and afterwards she looks at the pages and makes up her own version out loud!
My 8 year old grandson has a reading age of 11, according to his school, and is on the go constantly, wearing us both out.
All 4 of them have very different personalities and they are a pleasure to take care of,

angelica06 Sun 26-Jul-15 10:39:50

I love to treat my grandchildren with a day out usually at a soft play area where there is outdoor activities for my older grandson. Not always that easy as they are aged 2 and 13! As I can only see them once or twice a month I try to fit in as much as possible into our day. It usually works out just fine depending on the weather! The most important part for me is just being able to spend some quality time with them and seeing their happy smiling faces ... you can't put a price on that!

In comparison to when my children were young there wasn't a lot of choice of places to go for family days out but we were just as happy going to a swing park and having an ice cream as a treat. smile

willow5 Sun 26-Jul-15 10:37:20

I do not see my grandaughter a lot as she lives a long way away from me.
To her the best treat I can give is my time, so when I am with her we spend time together, mostly making things. Our last venture was ice dying some material, and then, when it was dry, making it into a bag she could carry on her back. Our time together is not always so productive, sometimes it is just playing I spy or making cakes, but as long as it is done together, she is happy

Nonnie Sun 26-Jul-15 10:37:05

I probably overdo it for their birthdays and at Christmas but apart from that it is mainly by simply giving them my undivided time. The eldest is only five so they don't really need much but if they have a hobby when they are older I will probably buy whatever they need whenever they need it.

jules56 Sun 26-Jul-15 10:30:09

Grandson is easy to please its usually a cheese twist and a doughnut

westieyaya Sun 26-Jul-15 10:27:47

I reward good behaviour with an extra chapter of Sea Quest at bedtime for DGS, after we had great fun making popcorn fish for tea. DGD isn't quite into rewards but I give them both money for treats if they go away for a few days. DVD nearly 6 so I think we're going to be talking about a little regular pocket money soon.

Misslayed Sun 26-Jul-15 10:21:05

My grand daughters think baking at Grandma's is a huge treat, they love taking their creations home as presents for Mum and Dad. Now that they're a bit older they have started giving a running commentary on what they're doing, as if they were presenting a cookery programme on TV, which is hilarious. Another big treat is being allowed to play outside in the rain! Or get their clothes soaking wet running through the sprinkler. We put money into their money boxes intermittently, it's also a big treat to count it to see if they have enough to buy something they need/want. Then we help them find it on the Internet and they dutifully pay up. The big birthday treat is trip to ToysRus. We get a trolley, and the birthday girl is able to put in anything they want. But as soon as there are three items in the trolley they have to put something back if they choose something else (sorry store staff!). The non birthday one can choose one small treat, same rule applies. This was a risky strategy I know, and means I have to spend up to two hours trailing round behind them, but I've never had a huge bill, one year my 10 year old GD eventually chose a hula hoop, a squishy ball and a model tiger - less than £10!

janeainsworth Sun 26-Jul-15 10:20:49

They do love them Elrel and I hadn't really realised how much.
DGD1 who is 5 and lives in the USA can just about read by herself now and is starting to write - while we were there recently she laboriously composed a letter to her Aunt Liz in England.

I can't wait for the first 'Dear Grandma'! Treats are a two-way thing, aren't they?

Molly10 Sun 26-Jul-15 10:08:24

I find the small treats of going to the park with a picnic are the most appreciated. However the eldest is a huge Lego fan and a few years ago I took him to LEGOLAND in Windsor, for a Birthday treat. He absolutely loved it. Needless to say a lot of the big, big Lego's on sale in the shop were far too expensive or me to get him. It did not stop him looking, admiring and dreaming :-)

helenclare Sun 26-Jul-15 10:06:35

We like to treat our granddaughter Sophie to experiences like the Snow White ice show. She got so involved she captivated everyone with her dancing to the music. Every one went home with a smile on their faces, and not just because of the brilliant show.

antheaholloway Sun 26-Jul-15 10:02:53

My grandchildren love coming to stay with us or even just to come for a day. We do cooking - they love to make their own pizzas with toppings they fancy - playing hide-n-seek in the garden, sitting in our little summerhouse at dusk to watch the badgers come to feed and generally helping around the house and garden. They seem to think it is a very special time and so do we!

Gadgaddy Sun 26-Jul-15 08:39:11

I want to be 'Grand' it's in the title so I spoil my grand children all I want. If I have it I'll get it, I love watching there faces light up when they get a new present, they deserve it x

Elrel Sat 25-Jul-15 23:05:36

janeainsworth: apology - I hadn't seen your mention of postcards until I posted. Don't they just love them?!

Elrel Sat 25-Jul-15 23:02:56

If you don't see them often, or even if you do, send them postcards or short letters. Use coloured pens and stickers if you, or they, like them. Even pre-school children love getting post addressed to them. Post them an occasional small surprise package. Send teenagers brief supportive texts asking how their week is going. If an email is amusing, amazing or beautiful forward it to them.

janeainsworth Sat 25-Jul-15 20:49:36

I did let them have cake or ice cream for tea if they'd eaten their main course wink

Ana Sat 25-Jul-15 20:08:21

janea! grin

Bet they've got lovely teeth though!