Gransnet forums

Sponsored discussions

   Please note: This topic is for discussions paid for by Gransnet clients. If you'd like to have your own paid for discussion thread, please feel free to mail us at [email protected]. If you are a journalist, start-up or student and you want to request feedback from gransnetters, please post in Media Requests.

What advice would you give to your younger self? Share with Legal & General - NOW CLOSED

(624 Posts)
EllieGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 04-Feb-19 14:42:13

We’ve all been asked this question at some point. Our answers can vary from ‘I wish I’d taken more risks’ or ‘I would have stopped caring about what people think’, to ‘I wish I’d had more fun’ or ‘I wish I’d travelled the world more’. But if you really think about it, what practical advice would you have really benefited from when you were younger? What would you have told your younger self? What would you have done differently? A recent survey carried out across Mumsnet and Gransnet revealed that some Gransnet users consciously put off financial decisions. Is going further with your finances something you might have given more consideration to, with the benefit of hindsight? Whatever advice you’d like to give to your younger self, Legal & General would love to know.

Here’s what Legal & General have to say: “On our savings journey, a nudge in the right direction can make the world of difference when it comes to our financial futures. It’s starting off early, saving little and often over a longer period, that can really pay off*. Although it’s never too late to start saving, what tips and guidance would have motivated you to do more with your money and just get started?”

Would you have taken more risks when you were younger? Is there any information you wish you would have known back then, such as how to save into your pension, how to invest your money or even how to save your money from an earlier age? Would you like to tell your younger self to be more confident in the decisions you make? Or perhaps you wish you’d spent more time with friends and family?

Whatever the advice you would like to give to your younger self, post them on the thread below and everyone who does will be entered into a prize draw where one GNer will win a £300 voucher of their choice (from a list).*

Thanks and good luck with the prize draw
GNHQ

Standard Insight T&Cs Apply

*Open 4/02/19 to 25/02/19. To enter please post on the thread below. One entry per person. One prize to be won: £300 voucher of winner’s choice (from a list). Winner chosen by random draw performed by computer process.

*The value of your investments can fall as well as rise and any income from them is not guaranteed. Legal & General Unit Trust Managers Limited.

Bruciebaby Wed 13-Feb-19 17:37:21

Don’t ever start smoking

Jacqui1956 Wed 13-Feb-19 17:44:49

To invest more for my retirement, to pay my mortgage off ASAP and to to make sure I have enough savings so I can travel and see the world!

TreeBeeQ Wed 13-Feb-19 17:59:56

Remember to love, listen and live.
Remember to earn, try hard and give.
Try new things and learn every day
Time is money is not a cliché
But life is a journey
From beginning to end
To enjoy every moment
You do not have to spend.
Save a little – live a lot.

Rafgasman Wed 13-Feb-19 18:19:01

Its never too early to start saving - pensions, easy access accounts, ISAs, stocks and shares. Avoid frittering your hard earned cash on life’s little luxuries. They can wait until you are more financial settled. Then life can be truly more rewarding if you are less likely to worry about money.

jonnybeez Wed 13-Feb-19 19:41:33

to invest in the future and keep only 20 percent of what you make for the now

jan378 Thu 14-Feb-19 00:33:26

I woud tell my self to engage brain before mouth and think before I speak, So I could have made more of myself in life and stretch my self more.

Mapleleaf Thu 14-Feb-19 09:15:28

I think I sometimes would have said work hard at your studies and go to University, then travel a bit before settling down, but I actually did those things, just in a different order and am not sorry!
I would say save as well as spend, but I did that, but perhaps not as much as I should have!
Most importantly, I would say to myself, "have more confidence in yourself".

Jef11 Thu 14-Feb-19 10:10:00

Being "persuaded" not to state legally that the 50 percent deposit for my first house was my inheritance and having my ex fritter it away without my knowledgewhen we sold the house and moved into a house rent free owned by my parents. ?

GrumpyGran8 Thu 14-Feb-19 10:50:46

Suppress your better nature and accept the marriage proposal delivered by that besotted young man in Shepherds Bush. Yes, that one, the one who wanted to whisk you off to that half-an-island in the Caribbean that his family owned. Sure, you'd have been quite right about the marriage not lasting - but at the very least you'd have ended up with a great tan!

PennyWhistle Thu 14-Feb-19 14:27:25

Save a little, spend a little, love lots

Sueki44 Thu 14-Feb-19 16:19:30

You probably look the best you are going to : enjoy it! No one sees the few pounds you think you need to lose and you have youth on your side. Reading is never wasted, whatever the content. Be kind.

kiki725 Thu 14-Feb-19 18:26:15

Tell more people to get lost.

isis53 Thu 14-Feb-19 20:54:46

I would have told myself to care more about my education and what I could achieve myself instead of with someone else.

kathcake Thu 14-Feb-19 22:55:50

Don't take life too seriously, enjoy it as much as you can as you're only young once

flowersfromheaven Fri 15-Feb-19 00:12:30

I would have like to have got a better career, A job where I could have worked my way up the ladder instead of doing the same job every single day. I have encouraged both my children to have a career that they enjoy and to do as much training as they can for different things because that way they will not get bored . which they have are still are doing, only wish that I had.

Lorelei Fri 15-Feb-19 03:31:11

I would advise my younger self to focus more on getting a better education and some decent qualifications, which in turn may have led to a better-paid, more secure career in a field I would've enjoyed working in- it certainly would've given me more choices. I would tell myself not to worry so much about going out and wasting money, but to always work and put a set amount or a percentage of my earnings into savings. I would also have said to use those savings to buy investment properties so that I could've been sitting pretty by now! With the benefit of hindsight I would also snap up a few items that would be worth a lot more 20-40years down the line. I would tell myself to wait a bit longer before having children, to meet my current (long-term) partner earlier, and to not bother with most of my ex-boyfriends! I would remind myself not to spend so much time in footwear that hurt, to take better care of myself and not to ever even start smoking. I would pay for a funeral plan, put money in savings for grandchildren, learn to sew and read even more than I did.

Jennyluck Fri 15-Feb-19 07:38:24

Stick with education and make better choices as far as work is concerned. Be more confident in your ability and plan for your old age. Because life goes by in a flash.

Zsarina Fri 15-Feb-19 13:40:31

I wish I had taken more care of my health so I could enjoy my old age without the difficulties I am experiencing because of self neglect and ignorance.

sootyo Fri 15-Feb-19 19:12:02

Don't worry about what others are thinking, spend your time making memories.

noahsark Fri 15-Feb-19 19:22:27

If you can’t change the outcome of something don’t waste time worrying about it

shellyboo Fri 15-Feb-19 22:54:42

I definitely wish Id gone to university earlier, trying to study when you have so many other commitments is difficult. smile

rejcomp Sat 16-Feb-19 06:57:41

Think it's bad now, it only gets worse..

Sawdoctorssue Sat 16-Feb-19 09:00:56

I would have suggested I start saving for my future teeth as mine are cracking and I have just had a quote for 7500 for 3 implants. sad

Lyncarol333 Sat 16-Feb-19 10:13:38

Do what makes you happy, stop worrying what other people think about you. When I was younger I was so wrapped up in doing the right thing and thinking of everyone else I often forgot to think about what I wanted to do and what made me happy. Be brave, work hard and be kind to yourself as well as others. After all, your happiness is important too.

shaddai88 Sat 16-Feb-19 10:31:43

Treasure and spend quality time with your children and family as you will reap the benefits when they grow up. What goes in is what will come out, so be careful set a good role role as well as been a parent with integrity, who loves and cares for their children and family. Your child first five years is crucial in making him/ her the person you want them to be. They need you not the latest technology and designer wares.