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What advice would you give to your younger self? Share with Legal & General - NOW CLOSED

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EllieGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 04-Feb-19 14:42:13

We’ve all been asked this question at some point. Our answers can vary from ‘I wish I’d taken more risks’ or ‘I would have stopped caring about what people think’, to ‘I wish I’d had more fun’ or ‘I wish I’d travelled the world more’. But if you really think about it, what practical advice would you have really benefited from when you were younger? What would you have told your younger self? What would you have done differently? A recent survey carried out across Mumsnet and Gransnet revealed that some Gransnet users consciously put off financial decisions. Is going further with your finances something you might have given more consideration to, with the benefit of hindsight? Whatever advice you’d like to give to your younger self, Legal & General would love to know.

Here’s what Legal & General have to say: “On our savings journey, a nudge in the right direction can make the world of difference when it comes to our financial futures. It’s starting off early, saving little and often over a longer period, that can really pay off*. Although it’s never too late to start saving, what tips and guidance would have motivated you to do more with your money and just get started?”

Would you have taken more risks when you were younger? Is there any information you wish you would have known back then, such as how to save into your pension, how to invest your money or even how to save your money from an earlier age? Would you like to tell your younger self to be more confident in the decisions you make? Or perhaps you wish you’d spent more time with friends and family?

Whatever the advice you would like to give to your younger self, post them on the thread below and everyone who does will be entered into a prize draw where one GNer will win a £300 voucher of their choice (from a list).*

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andyh Wed 06-Feb-19 12:42:03

I WOULD TELL MY SELF TO TRY HARDER

burwellmum Wed 06-Feb-19 12:34:17

Someone else said relax more, worry less and I think I would endorse that

Maggiemaybe Wed 06-Feb-19 12:23:26

I'm not sure I'd give any advice. It never turns out well in those time-travelling films, does it? At first I thought I'd advise my younger self to buy a bigger house while the prices were rock bottom (by today's standards), but that would have meant scrimping and saving instead of enjoying life as we did.

Perhaps I'd just dig out the lottery ticket I kept from that day in January 1995 when we got 5 winning numbers and tell my young self to replace number 13 with number 16. Not that I wasn't grateful for the £1200..... smile

andywedge Wed 06-Feb-19 12:14:17

Move to Huddersfield about a year sooner than you plan to

katynana Wed 06-Feb-19 12:05:24

Take the opportunities that present themselves but do consider them carefully first. Pay into a pension from early on to try to be more independent. If you have children enjoy them and yourself (and partner) as life goes on, don't keep promising 'tomorrow'. Remember, tomorrow never comes it just becomes yesterday and then you've missed it.

susiesioux Wed 06-Feb-19 12:05:18

Make the most if the time you have with your children while they’re young. Other things matter far less than you think.
With regards to financial advice we spoke to an advisor when we were in our 40s and she said with careful planning and a lot of saving we could retire at 50! We had to go on to 55 to allow for financial crashes but we did it and now live off the interest to our savings and neither of us have to go to work. We have lots of free time to spend with grandchildren. Also I know of so many women whose husband work right up to 65 then only manage a couple of years before dying usually from an unknown heart complaint. I didn’t want that to happen to us

scooby Wed 06-Feb-19 12:02:12

To be more confidant and listen to parents advise.

Venus Wed 06-Feb-19 12:00:56

I wish I had taken more interest in our financial affairs and made sure that my late husband had taken out a pension. I took it for granted that he knew best but now he has died I realise that he made some mistakes, especially taking equity out of the house. Although I agreed to this, I wish now that I hadn't. We enjoyed a good lifestyle but am paying the cost for this now.

M00se Wed 06-Feb-19 11:51:49

Make more of an effort to remember as much of the fun times as possible. And drink less.

Humph Wed 06-Feb-19 11:50:44

balance caution and adventure with being sensible

Tish Wed 06-Feb-19 11:48:25

Grab every opportunity with both hands and squeeze as much out of it as you can!

finemang Wed 06-Feb-19 11:47:37

Be yourself and don't let family (in my case) or friends take control of your decisions. Hold your head high and believe in yourself. Live every day!!

jen2104 Wed 06-Feb-19 11:45:48

Live your life for yourself not for other people. Trust your gut and be more adventurous!

ldoone64 Wed 06-Feb-19 11:44:07

That it is ok to say no to people or invitations if you don't want to do something

Bobdoesit Wed 06-Feb-19 11:33:32

That is easy! For years my hubby and I delighted in at least two holidays a year, first around Europe but then we spread our wings and visited The Caribbean, Asia, Australia, New Zealand and North America not just once but several times. It was great we loved it all, and we have masses of memories BUT – there is always one isn’t there. Now in our seventies and living on Government Pensions we are kicking ourselves, why didn't we think about our later years? Stupid, foolish folk that we were. Why didn’t we have one holiday a year and save a bit of money or put it into a pension? We were told but did we listen? No of course not!

LindaKnits Wed 06-Feb-19 11:31:36

Travel more and worry less, but I probably wouldn't have listened.

neill2407 Wed 06-Feb-19 11:31:17

Don’t rush getting involved in a relationship. Take your time getting to know someone and don’t feel pressured into it. Check you are actually compatible with that person ie. similar values / things you want from a relationship.

prwilson Wed 06-Feb-19 11:16:12

Have more confidence in yourself.

GrAnne2 Wed 06-Feb-19 11:10:59

To have the courage of my convictions - to live life according to my beliefs, no matter the prevailing opinion (without deliberately causing hurt to others). I’ve tried to do this but - particularly when younger - often tempered my views to avoid being out of line ... as I’ve aged, I advise my children to remember they will never be as vigorous & healthy as they are that day, so make the most of life without grumbling!

littlemonkeyz Wed 06-Feb-19 11:09:24

Don't get in debt, don't worry and choose to do something that you love to earn money

grandmaz Wed 06-Feb-19 11:08:12

I'd have said buy fewer unecessary "things" and save money every month as soon as your salary hits your account. Put it somewhere in another account where you can't use it on impulse and try to forget you have it until you really need it. Make it a lifelong habit!

carolynhey Wed 06-Feb-19 11:07:58

Not to worry as much what people think of you. People will always judge so just be yourself.

georgia101 Wed 06-Feb-19 11:03:01

Make up your mind what you want from life and go for it. Get the education and qualifications you need as young as you can, but it's never too late to do so. Make the most of your opportunities, make friends, not enemies, and look on the bright side of life - even in the darkest of times, there is one if you just look for it.

mo3733 Wed 06-Feb-19 10:57:17

i would say dont settle for less than the best because you are worth it

Mildred Wed 06-Feb-19 10:52:08

love yourself.