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What advice would you give to your younger self? Share with Legal & General - NOW CLOSED

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EllieGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 04-Feb-19 14:42:13

We’ve all been asked this question at some point. Our answers can vary from ‘I wish I’d taken more risks’ or ‘I would have stopped caring about what people think’, to ‘I wish I’d had more fun’ or ‘I wish I’d travelled the world more’. But if you really think about it, what practical advice would you have really benefited from when you were younger? What would you have told your younger self? What would you have done differently? A recent survey carried out across Mumsnet and Gransnet revealed that some Gransnet users consciously put off financial decisions. Is going further with your finances something you might have given more consideration to, with the benefit of hindsight? Whatever advice you’d like to give to your younger self, Legal & General would love to know.

Here’s what Legal & General have to say: “On our savings journey, a nudge in the right direction can make the world of difference when it comes to our financial futures. It’s starting off early, saving little and often over a longer period, that can really pay off*. Although it’s never too late to start saving, what tips and guidance would have motivated you to do more with your money and just get started?”

Would you have taken more risks when you were younger? Is there any information you wish you would have known back then, such as how to save into your pension, how to invest your money or even how to save your money from an earlier age? Would you like to tell your younger self to be more confident in the decisions you make? Or perhaps you wish you’d spent more time with friends and family?

Whatever the advice you would like to give to your younger self, post them on the thread below and everyone who does will be entered into a prize draw where one GNer will win a £300 voucher of their choice (from a list).*

Thanks and good luck with the prize draw
GNHQ

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Thenme2 Sun 24-Feb-19 17:47:08

Don't spend years & years trying to get a tan if your skin doesn't want to. It won't thank you when it gets older.

Jess9887 Sun 24-Feb-19 17:20:21

To not worry so much about what people think. And to ask for help and advice when you need it. You don't have to be strong and go through things alone.

WendySmith3 Sun 24-Feb-19 17:06:32

I’d tell myself not to worry about the small things, if it’s not going to matter next week then it doesn’t matter today

joannec1234 Sun 24-Feb-19 16:47:55

Save more money instead of squandering it!

cazzar1 Sun 24-Feb-19 16:30:00

I wish I hadn't worried so much about what people thought of me. It was quite debilitating and stopped me doing lots of things I'd have liked to have tried. However, over the years, I have grown in confidence and now do my own thing smile

Lesleyroch Sun 24-Feb-19 16:04:41

Tell my mum and dad that I love them!

Pjran Sun 24-Feb-19 15:48:21

Add some AVC to your pension pot. You’ll need extra to live on in retirement

Pretenna Sun 24-Feb-19 15:42:34

To start saving as soon as you started work as you never know when you'll be out of a job.

Meg54 Sun 24-Feb-19 15:40:40

Travel more.

s6sue Sun 24-Feb-19 15:38:19

To save, save, save, stop wasting money so that I can afford my house and family without the struggles life throws at you.

iwanawinsumat Sun 24-Feb-19 15:19:53

Take every opportunity given &enjoy life to the full. Don't dwell on mistakes and definitely don't worry about what other people think all the time

Radley Sun 24-Feb-19 15:03:22

If the job is giving you stress change it . Life is too short.

Cassiecat2 Sun 24-Feb-19 14:32:37

I would have told myself don't enter that shit shoveling profession, aka Nursing, it ruined my life

tiz001 Sun 24-Feb-19 14:18:08

My advice would be Travel more

Inyosi Sun 24-Feb-19 14:13:05

Don't worry about whether you fit in or not somewhere along the way you will make friends!

sofieellis Sun 24-Feb-19 14:05:16

I'd tell myself not to waste all that time and money dyeing my hair - I look fabulous with my sexy silver hair!

greig23 Sun 24-Feb-19 13:44:58

deffinatley try more at school and past work jobs. might be in a better job now

Dottydots Sun 24-Feb-19 13:28:10

Look in the mirror, smile, and be happy with what you see, as in the not too distant future you'll see your grandmother smiling back at you

tomder56 Sun 24-Feb-19 13:06:27

? Don’t worry.....be happy! ?

babcia Sun 24-Feb-19 11:52:31

Don't be in a rush to get married. You will not end up on the shelf.

tinalist Sun 24-Feb-19 11:34:51

One life, one shot....so make sure you have no regrets!

jazzitup Sun 24-Feb-19 11:26:48

Save money when you can, learn a trade, be more confident and most of all enjoy life, friends and family.

max24 Sun 24-Feb-19 11:18:39

To Smile More, and not let others get you down

smoran37 Sun 24-Feb-19 08:35:53

Pass the driving test.
Do more things that I enjoy rather than trying to accommodate everyone else.
More exercise. I think my mobility in later years has suffered because I didn't stay fit

cozitsme Sun 24-Feb-19 08:28:13

Start saving for your retirement, it's only now at 48 that I am starting to panic that I haven't thought about my future enough. Even as a temp, I could have set up my own personal pension plan and would have felt much more secure than I do now. You think you have all the time in the world before you have to think about it when really you don't.