Our retirement plans changed dramatically when our son (only child) moved to Australia. Before the move, we had been hands-on grandparents involved in childcare, family weekends, holidays together, and so on. The move didn’t go well, and a short time later, our son and his wife were divorced. His now ex-wife came back to England while our son and two grandchildren remained in Australia. Our son married again, and two new grandchildren quickly followed, but before the children arrived there was a wedding in Fiji.
My husband and I hadn’t been abroad for several years, but that all changed when our son asked his dad to be his best-man. The long, long flight to Fiji was hell on earth, but we did it, and suddenly a whole new world opened to us. Since then we’ve been to Australia for the births of both our new grandchildren and another trip for their joint Christening. We’ve also seen approximately three-quarters of Australia a place we didn’t expect ever to visit. Last year we spent a month in New Zealand visiting both the North and South Islands. We’ve climbed cliffs, swam in the sea, been on funfair rides, spent time in the Outback, learnt to canoe and had a magical encounter with Dolphins.
On the downsides, we’ve encountered one poisonous snake, several deadly spiders, endured one spider bite (unpleasant but not life-threatening) and came much too close to a huge bush fire. All life experiences we didn’t expect to have! We have also had the joy of learning to change nappies all over again, cared for two small children while their mummy and daddy worked and felt much younger for it.