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Let's talk dating apps with Lumen

(242 Posts)
LucyBGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 17-Oct-19 12:08:11

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In recent years, the number of people using dating apps to find that special someone has rapidly increased. Dating at any age can be difficult, but dating apps can make the process a little bit easier. Whether you’ve used a dating app before or not, Lumen wants to hear from you.

Here’s what Lumen has to say: “Dating apps are in full swing these days, with an estimated 59 million people using them worldwide, and that’s only as of 2017. Now, the number will only be higher and it's easy to see why. As our lives become busier and more hectic, it can be tricky to find time to set aside to go on dates, or to even find people to go on dates with. Dating apps come in to help us there, by allowing us to get chatting to people more easily. It’s not just a millennial’s game anymore.

More and more people over 50 are turning to dating apps to find someone to spend their later years with. You may have many friends and maybe even a family of your own, but that doesn’t mean you should be content with being single if you don’t want to be. If you’re ready to get back into dating, whether you’re in your fifties or beyond, then it might be time to try a dating app like Lumen.”

Have you got any experience of using dating apps? If so, were they good or bad experiences? Have you found good connections or engaged in quality conversations on dating apps?

Do you find dating apps easy or difficult to use? And, if you have never used a dating app, what do you think of them? Have you considered it but been put off?

Share your thoughts about dating apps on the thread below and you will be entered into a prize draw where one GNer will win a £300 voucher of their choice (from a list).

Thanks and good luck!
GNHQ

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s861421 Tue 19-Nov-19 20:42:04

both of my children have met their partners through apps so yes I am happy with them, but youstill need to be careful however you meet someone

Ikea1234 Tue 19-Nov-19 20:27:23

My experience of these sites hasn't been positive to be honest. I've had similar experiences to those that others have mentioned, and it makes me wonder if there was even a vetting process for some of these morons! A friend of mine married a man she met on a particular dating site but he reminded of a mass murderer so I 'm still not entirely convinced!

sscrase Tue 19-Nov-19 19:55:15

Worked for me but you have to have your wits about you. A little bit of common sense and it's a brilliant concept.

svalentine60 Tue 19-Nov-19 19:30:22

I'll be honest. I'm almost 59 and have bee divorced for over 35 years. I've had a couple of short relationships but never through an app. It's not something I would ever do. You have no idea if that person is being truthful or what could happen. To me it's a dangerous process and an unnatural one.

feefeegabor Tue 19-Nov-19 18:51:00

I really don't like the idea of dating apps and don't think I would ever use one

yorkshiresteve Tue 19-Nov-19 18:27:16

I have used some dating apps before. I found match was quite good with genuine people. The free ones such as tinder or POF I feel are too easy to create false profiles

cheekychicken24 Tue 19-Nov-19 18:24:23

I've never tried a dating app. I did 'meet' my husband online, but we got chatting on a general interest forum, not through an app!

I think if I was single I probably would try an app - you surely have more chance of meeting that special someone by casting your net in the biggest pond - and if you exclude dating apps, then I'd think you're massively reducing your odds of finding 'the one!'

ceejayen Tue 19-Nov-19 18:15:04

Not tried dating apps ...yet!

towser44 Tue 19-Nov-19 18:02:15

I think they have their place, but, I prefer to the old fashioned methods, you know like actually talking/meeting people in person!

sezz35sezz35 Tue 19-Nov-19 17:52:52

I think they are a great idea for everyone. It seems to be how the youngsters do it nowadays.

glennamy Tue 19-Nov-19 17:51:51

Makes things easier but I would not use them unless I couldn't do it through being out and meeting people!

sheilads105 Tue 19-Nov-19 17:25:44

I think they are a fab idea. Although having seen the film The Good Liar there are lots of precautions that need taking. They can be a great way to widen your social circle though and are a way of finding new companions.

Marshmallowpants Tue 19-Nov-19 17:25:44

I met my husband through a dating app, so think they are totally amazing! There are of course some dodgy people on there, but as I discovered also some amazing people!

angiejackson Tue 19-Nov-19 16:53:25

I think as long as you are sensible about it then I see no reason not to use them if you're free and single it's a great way to meet people you would never meet in every day life.

rocketriffs Tue 19-Nov-19 16:51:42

A lot of people with fake profiles and people lying about their age and the majority of photos are filtered. Lots of people hiding behind snapchat filters. I don't want to date anyone with a squirrel's nose, whiskers and kitten's ears.

kasperc0 Tue 19-Nov-19 15:48:28

They can be great for some people, but I don't think I'd trust them enough to use them myself

devito Tue 19-Nov-19 15:35:28

luckily i'm happily married although i do think dating apps are a good way for older people to meet up

emmmaaa26 Tue 19-Nov-19 15:20:46

I like dating apps because you can get to know a lot of people who you wouldn't have met otherwise, however, I still think meeting someone face to face is better.

liquorice Tue 19-Nov-19 15:15:23

I personally have no need for one, but I do know people who have married after meeting on a dating app, however, it’s not something I would do, you never know what these people are really like and I worry after hearing a few horror stories

rachelmccraith Tue 19-Nov-19 15:00:30

I think they work for some people. It can be easier to talk to new people online rather than face to face

M00se Tue 19-Nov-19 14:58:31

I've not used one, but some of my friends have. I think that they are quite effective, and probably a much easier way to meet people.

gd Tue 19-Nov-19 14:45:18

Meat market

carolvs1 Tue 19-Nov-19 14:33:11

Dating apps, a great idea but an absolute minefield.

sophie56 Tue 19-Nov-19 14:06:30

I am happy being single so it is hard to judge. I don't like the idea but if I wanted a partner it is another tool I suppose

Minnibix Tue 19-Nov-19 14:03:21

I think dating apps are brilliant so good for people who don't have time for the dating scene, however I think there needs to be stricter joining regulations. Although you see a lot of people saying they have met their all time love, I personally have not met a woman that has joined any of these sites and not been conned by a married man.