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Gransnetters share the legacy they'd like to leave when they're gone with Cancer Research UK

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LucyBGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 20-Jan-20 10:31:36

This sponsored discussion is now closed. Thank you to everyone who shared their thoughts on this thread.

As we get older, we often think about what our legacy will be; what memories, relationships or objects we leave behind to reflect how we’d like to be remembered. Making a Will is a way to communicate those wishes and the things that are important to someone are often reflected by the things they include. Cancer Research UK would love to hear what matters to you when you think about your legacy.

Here’s what Cancer Research UK has to say: “We know that when writing a Will, your friends and family should always come first. Once they’re taken care of, if you have even just a small gift leftover to leave for Cancer Research UK, this will still make a huge difference. We know from meeting our wonderful supporters that people have left us a gift in their Will because they are passionate about helping to beat cancer and want to continue when they are gone.”

What have you thought about leaving behind? Have you detailed this in a Will? Would you consider leaving a gift to charity in your Will? Would Cancer Research UK be a consideration? How would you like people to remember you when you’re gone?

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glennamy Tue 21-Jan-20 15:09:49

I'd like to be known as kind after I have departed. As for charity / leaving money to them there is a good chance most will be taken by Alzheimer's care as we managed to scrimp and save for a mortgage... I now wonder why we bothered!

Royston23 Tue 21-Jan-20 14:14:44

Our money will go to our daughter, we support lots of charities and we are working hard to give our daughter an easier life than we had.

LOU1ASH1 Tue 21-Jan-20 13:47:40

We will not be leaving any money to charity as we are leaving whatever we have to our children.

happysouls Tue 21-Jan-20 13:45:08

Well there won't be any money. There is a will and hopefully that will make things easier. I hope people will just think of me from time to time and think about happy times we shared!

moneysavvy Tue 21-Jan-20 12:59:53

I have included the rspb in my will. They provide valuable habitats, not only for birds but to preserve natural area for out future generations

omgitslani Tue 21-Jan-20 12:57:10

It would be nice to be able to leave my family with enough to ease some of their own financial burdens. And have some left over to put to charities close to my heart. I hope I am remembered fondly by the people that I know and that my family and friends have many funny anecdotes to share about me for years to come.

sheilads105 Tue 21-Jan-20 12:21:52

My children are my legacy. Over the years we have bought a few nice paintings and we plan to leave these to named children depending on which ones they like most. Not a lot but they will have a memory of us through art.

sputnicki63 Tue 21-Jan-20 12:13:44

I don't expect to have much money to leave especially if I need to pay for care. I'd hope to have left those around me with memories of quality time spent together though.

tabbaz Tue 21-Jan-20 11:51:12

To be honest with you I will leave everything to my family. HOWEVER, I do raise money for various charities and donate throughout my life. Also when I inherit from my parents then I will be making donations then too.

adrisco Tue 21-Jan-20 11:42:15

Have made a will leaving everything to my four children. I hope I'm remembered as a loving mother and grandmother.

M00se Tue 21-Jan-20 11:38:55

I think that what it boils down too, is that I wish to be remembered with love and fondness.

KatyK Tue 21-Jan-20 11:33:33

We've made a will. We only have one child and everything will go to her. We have stipulated that a small amount of money should go to our three nephews who we have always been close to. We need to update our will I think as it was made over 20 years ago. We may consider leaving some to charity now. My husband has prostate cancer and he has had excellent care.

Lolamia91 Tue 21-Jan-20 11:22:56

The one who was always there

hwg3141 Tue 21-Jan-20 11:21:37

I haven't written a will yet, but charity donations are definitely an option. It'll be nice to know that some good will become of my money

hugshelp Tue 21-Jan-20 11:07:20

We have a disabled daughter who will always need care so we will be leaving all we can to her.

otherwiseknownasGrandma Tue 21-Jan-20 10:46:03

I'm leaving my estate to my children, I worry about their futures and want to do what I can to make their lives easier.

wildswan16 Tue 21-Jan-20 10:42:49

I have given to certain charities all my life and will continue to do so, but will not be making any specific instructions in my will. I trust my children to be generous to any particular organisation that may have helped me in my "dying" years and will leave that decision to them.

mbody Tue 21-Jan-20 10:27:45

I won’t be leaving any money to charity in my will but would hope any donations received at my funeral will be split between the two charities I currently volunteer with.

cookiemonster66 Tue 21-Jan-20 10:21:05

I have made a will, chances are I will die before my younger hubby, and I have a long term chronic pain condition. As I only recently met/married him I made provision for my daughter to receive my share of equity should my hubby remarry, go into a care home or die after me. Initially when I die it goes to him as I would not make him homeless as equity is tied up in the house, BUT should he remarry I do not want the next wife claiming my daughters inheritance as I already had a substantial sum to which she was untitled before I met him. After recent controversies on BBC news the past year or two, I am afraid my trust in charities has gradually fizzled out. I used to do quite a bit of fund raising but as things came to light my heart was no longer in it.

chris8888 Tue 21-Jan-20 10:12:31

I lost my daughter aged just 33 to mouth cancer so if I had anything to leave it would go to mouth cancer research. I do think though that Cancer Uk seems to get a lot of money from donations, with the only improvements being breast cancer. I am sure other people would say different but that is how I feel.

nikhop90 Tue 21-Jan-20 10:07:13

I will leave everything I have to my children as I want them to live a comfortable life. However, I donate to charity whilst I am alive.

liz1970 Tue 21-Jan-20 09:54:20

As we donate to various charities now, we are leaving everything of ours to our children and grandchildren. I know that then they will probably donate to charities.

carolvs1 Tue 21-Jan-20 09:54:03

Everything we leave will go to our children and grandchildren. We do already give quite a lot to charity currently.

Michelleoliver Tue 21-Jan-20 09:53:55

We have made a will and left our property/belongings to our children. Our children have not been able to financially purchase their own property so we hope this boost of cash once we are gone will help them in some way which can then be passed down with their own children.

finleypop Tue 21-Jan-20 09:47:53

I donate to charity, however, I will not be leaving a donation in my will.
Any money will be left to our son, in the hope it can get him on the property ladder. We don't have much money, but homes are becoming more & more difficult to own or even rent, so any security we can give him is our prime objective.