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What are your hopes for the future generations of your family? Share with Cancer Research UK - £200 voucher to be won

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CeriGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 25-Jan-21 12:23:25

It’s natural to wonder about what the world might look like in the future, particularly for our loved ones. Sometimes this can be a worrying prospect but it’s comforting to know there are things we can do now to help our family members thrive in the future, whether it’s creating a safe home for them, instilling the life lessons we’ve learnt in our grandchildren, or leaving gifts and donations to charity. With this in mind, Cancer Research UK would like to hear your hopes for the future generations of your family.

Here’s what Cancer Research UK has to say: “A Will is one of the most important documents you’ll ever write. It’s the only way to make sure the people and the causes you care about are looked after, and it’s where you can decide what happens to your money and possessions. Once your family and friends are taken care of, a gift to Cancer Research UK – no matter how big or small – really makes a difference for future generations.

Thanks to our amazing supporters, Gifts in Wills fund over a third of our life-saving work, helping us to make treatments even more effective for future generations, bringing forward the day when nobody fears the disease.”

What advice do you give to your grandchildren about how to achieve their hopes and dreams? How do you hope the world will be for future generations and what steps do you take now to help achieve this? Have you thought about writing a Will? Would you consider leaving a gift in your Will to Cancer Research UK to ensure your family grow up in a world where more people survive cancer?

All who post on this thread will be entered into a prize draw taking place on 22/02, where one lucky Gransnetter will win a £200 voucher for a store of their choice (from a list).

Vouchers of winner's choice will be an e-voucher ordered via the Voucher Express platform. Choice will be dependent on availability at the time. Winners will also have an option to select a 'VEX Gift Certificate" which will give them the option to select a physical voucher or gift card from the full Voucher Express range.

Thanks and good luck with the prize draw!

GNHQ

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Morgie52 Sat 06-Feb-21 10:32:49

A happy healthy life for all my grandchildren

dahville Sat 06-Feb-21 00:04:33

I want them to find something that they love and find fulfilling. I think one of the saddest things is going to a job every day that you hate. I hope for my sons and their families to do what they love.

suzieo1 Fri 05-Feb-21 22:55:39

To be the best 'you' you can be!

jooge Fri 05-Feb-21 22:52:13

Good health, happiness, to always be kind and mindful of other people.

hopezibah Fri 05-Feb-21 22:50:54

I love to encourage the younger generation to truly follow their dreams to embrace being unique - So much so that we take being called "weird" as a compliment in our family. Not to follow the herd just because it is what is expected of you but to be brave enough to do your own thing, follow your gut instincts and what is right because sometimes that is different from what everyone else is doing.

We sorted out our will a few years ago using the charity donation scheme where we made a donation to a charity instead of paying the solicitor to do the will. We don't have a lot of spare money to be leaving a legacy to charity in a will but we do give as much as we can and volunteer for causes we support too already.

fion7 Fri 05-Feb-21 22:47:24

My advice is to be whoever you want to be, do something that fills you with happiness every day. Never make it about money, that is the road to disaster. As long as you can earn enough to keep a roof over your head and food on the table you don't need anything else. Make every day a day worth living.

Pick666 Fri 05-Feb-21 22:02:08

To live happy healthy lives
And to be kind

NanaShug Fri 05-Feb-21 21:08:54

I've taught them if they believe in themselves then the skies the limit and for those people who were never taught this then its up to you to believe in them ?

Clarkehouse Fri 05-Feb-21 19:36:17

I have missed a full year of my Grandchildrens lives as they live in another part of the country, I hope this never happens again. I would love to see more multigenerational family arrangements in this country as they do elsewhere such as Italy. I want to see as much of them as possible and want them to be confident and happy and to follow their dreams.

NanaMargaret Fri 05-Feb-21 17:19:39

I wish them health and happiness and an awareness that our mine and spirit is as important as our body.

dragonfly63 Fri 05-Feb-21 17:07:30

Having been diagnosed with bowel cancer in October, having a major operation in November and now having chemo to mop up any rogue microcells I am just glad to be alive with a future to look forward to. I have recently had the Covid vaccine and am looking forward to being able to leave the house where I have been shielding since March last year apart from medical appointments. I will be leaving bequests in my will to Cancer charities and all the family including the grandchildren are more aware of cancer than most.

shellee Fri 05-Feb-21 15:33:04

be true to yourself no matter what

molly57 Fri 05-Feb-21 15:23:07

All I wish is that should the world in particular the UK end up in a situation like we are today that the powers at be are better prepared.

abwhite Fri 05-Feb-21 15:14:24

Participate , take responsibility be kind

poshpaws Fri 05-Feb-21 15:10:44

I'd like my child and grandchildren to live in a world where true democracy replaces dictatorships and "First past the Post" in the UK is replaced by Proportional Representation; where Scotland gains its Independence from the out of reality Westminster governments; where Coronavirus no longer poses a threat. I'd tell them always to be considerate of others' feelings, but not to take any messing about, and I'd give them all copies of the song by Lee Ann Womack "I Hope You Dance", and ask them to live by the words in it. I'd hope for a world where humans accept that animals are sentient beings and should be treated with love, respect and care, and where everyone is doing their bit to allieviate pollution in the air, sea and ground. I'd hope they would do their part to help reduce the absolute disparity between the "haves" and "have nots".

Lunchtimelady1 Fri 05-Feb-21 14:42:53

Good health and happiness in whatever they choose to do in life.
Also not to let fear of failure deter them from attempting to do something they would really like to do. The only failure there is never to have tried at all.

ems07957 Fri 05-Feb-21 13:07:09

Health and happiness

AnnJH Fri 05-Feb-21 11:21:12

Listen, look and learn about yourself, others and nature...be kind, tolerant and understanding to all. Look at life as a journey and remain open to new experiences, opportunities and challenges. Keep yourself healthy and safe.

Not every day can be joyful, but do your best to put joy into every day. Life is what we make it.

shaddai88 Fri 05-Feb-21 10:07:31

Honour God and be rooted in His words. Be a man/ woman of God with integrity.

dani4 Fri 05-Feb-21 09:43:45

Treat others as you would like to be treated yourself. Be kind.

stainforthtravel Fri 05-Feb-21 08:28:25

To be good and kind. Don’t get stressed over silly things, always try your best. And make sure you travel - see all you want to see while you can. ? xx

JenT Fri 05-Feb-21 07:57:58

I don’t have any grand children yet but I always tell my daughter to be herself and not be a sheep following everyone else. Be proud of who you are.

wendybiv Fri 05-Feb-21 00:31:56

I would wish for a better world for my grandchildren.

suzybean Thu 04-Feb-21 23:06:08

Well I don't have any grandchildren yet! Both my children are working hard, building their futures and enjoying life. I think I've taught them to work hard, nothing that is worth having comes easily does it? I think young people have to try and focus on achieving their goals, but if they don't have a clear goal then focus on keeping their options open and see everything as a chance to learn. You never know where it might take you , or who you might meet in the process. My wish for their future is that there will be a fairer, more equal society, Life is a long journey so don't be in too much of a rush to grow up! Be kind, be authentic and stay positive.

WoodLane7 Thu 04-Feb-21 19:55:52

Simply that they will lead healthy and happy lives, whatever paths they choose