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Do you have questions about your Will? Ask Cancer Research UK’s expert solicitor Rebecca Massey - £200 voucher to be won

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CeriGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 01-Mar-23 10:43:51

Please note, this Q&A is now closed for questions. You can read the expert's answers from page 3 onwards.

Having a Will ensures our wishes are fulfilled after we die, from the distribution of our possessions to taking care of the people and organisations that matter to us. However, if you’re creating a new Will or updating an existing one it can be hard to know where to start or where to look for advice. To help you out, Cancer Research UK has invited one of their expert solicitors to answer your questions around your Will.

●Everyone who shares a question on the thread below will be entered into a prize draw.
●The Q&A will close on 15 March at 23:59
●One lucky Gransnet user will win a £200 voucher
●Rebecca will be back online on 16 and 24 March to answer a selection of your questions.

Please note, Cancer Research UK cannot provide individual legal advice to Gransnet users. For specific questions about what you should put in your Will and how to manage your estate, they always recommend talking to your own solicitor.

About the expert
Rebecca Massey is the Legacy Management Lead at Cancer Research UK and a qualified Private Client Solicitor. Rebecca has worked in the Legacies team for 10 years looking after the legacy gifts that have very generously been left to Cancer Research UK. She previously worked as Solicitor in Private Practice advising clients about their Wills and Estates’.

Cancer Research UK have a Free Will Service to help you pledge a gift to life-saving research. Here’s what they have to say about it :

‘Our Free Will Service allows anyone over 18 to easily write or update a simple Will for free. Whether you would like to write your Will in person, online or over the phone, we partner with best-in-class solicitors and Will-writing providers to give you expert support.’

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JackyB Wed 15-Mar-23 09:47:27

I live in Germany and after a lot of deliberation and discussion with a lawyer have decided against making a Will as the legal procedure for probate is straightforward and we would do what would be done by law anyway.

However, I have money in England and half a house which I inherited on my mother's death. (I have one sister and we got half each.) We have joint ownership of the house which means that if either of us die, the other becomes sole owner. We want to sell it in the next couple of years, but are renting it out for the moment.

I realise I should make a will in the UK, but will this then mean that I have to link it to my German situation or can I just include a clause indicating that everything is covered here?

I intend to bring the money to Germany and am seeing my bank about the best way to do this but a Will must take into consideration that I could get run over by a bus this afternoon.

SarahKnightley Wed 15-Mar-23 10:14:43

Me and my partner have been together for 20 years. He’s 60 and I’m in my late 40s and we have 4 children and 2 grandchildren between us. My current will leaves my half of the estate to my children rather than my partner … if we get married does that still stay in place or does my estate automatically go to him? (My eldest has a different dad so I want to make sure he gets his share of my estate, and my partner has a large amount of money in savings so doesn’t need my estate!). Hope that makes sense!

marcc82 Wed 15-Mar-23 11:42:20

I'm 40 and don't have a will, I don't have many assets. Should I get one now?

LouisaKeepham Wed 15-Mar-23 15:18:28

How do I go about leaving a gift in my will to charity? Should I contact the charity directly?

libra10 Wed 15-Mar-23 15:44:37

We need to update our will to ensure our wishes are still relevant. I would like your advice whether it is also worth having a power of attorney set up at the same time.

Susie42 Wed 15-Mar-23 15:49:48

Marriage invalidates any previous wills so you will need to make a new one.

nats79 Wed 15-Mar-23 16:55:11

Can any of my beneficiaries be a witness when I am making my Will?

wendybiv Wed 15-Mar-23 16:59:27

Please could you advise me if it is complicated to change a will to include new grandchildren and does it incur further charges?

fullarton121 Wed 15-Mar-23 18:15:09

If i alter my Will, do i need to complete another one or can it be amended easily?

marymod Wed 15-Mar-23 21:23:43

Are people better off specifying amounts of money or percentages bearing in mind inflation and property prices?

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:51:08

biglouis

Can you leave your estate to one relative or friend who has really helped you and cut out nearer siblings such that they cannot make a claim? The sibling concerned does not depend upon me financially in any way.

In England, Wales and Northern Ireland, you have the freedom in your Will to leave your estate to any individuals or organisations that you wish. You do not have to include siblings or any family members at all. This is known as testamentary freedom.
In Scotland, there is an exception to this freedom, known as Legal Rights. This gives a spouse/civil partner and the children of the deceased the right to claim a proportion of the moveable (non-property) assets of the estate. This is a form of ‘forced heirship’, meaning it is an automatic right that cannot be argued against – once claimed, it must be settled. Legal Rights do not apply to siblings.
However, in the whole of the UK, it is possible for a Will to be contested by interested parties or for a claim to be made against the estate after death. It could be that someone tries to challenge the validity of the Will in some way, for example, by saying the person did not have capacity to make it, made the Will under undue influence or that it was not executed properly. Or certain individuals may claim they were financially dependent on the deceased. While it is not possible to completely eliminate the chance of a successful challenge/claim, you can reduce the likelihood by seeking independent legal advice when drafting your Will, so that there is further evidence of your wishes and reasons for not including certain people.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:52:18

PattyFingers

Why is it that people make a Will which they believe is binding but relatives are able to contest the Will if they think they have been slighted and sometimes the Will is overturned. Surely a Will is a Will.

Hi, similar to my answer to biglouis above, it might help you to know that in England, Wales and Northern Ireland, you have the freedom in your Will to leave your estate to any individuals or organisations that you wish. You do not have to include any family members at all. This is known as testamentary freedom.

In Scotland, there is an exception to this freedom, known as Legal Rights. This gives a spouse/civil partner and the children of the deceased the right to claim a proportion of the moveable (non-property) assets of the estate. This is a form of ‘forced heirship’, meaning it is an automatic right that cannot be argued against – once claimed, it must be settled. Legal Rights do not apply to siblings.

However, in the whole of the UK, it is possible for a Will to be contested by interested parties or for a claim to be made against the estate after death. It could be that someone tries to challenge the validity of the Will in some way, for example, by saying the person did not have capacity to make it, made the Will under undue influence or that it was not executed properly. Or certain individuals may claim they were financially dependent on the deceased. While it is not possible to completely eliminate the chance of a successful challenge/claim, you can reduce the likelihood by seeking independent legal advice when drafting your Will, so that there is further evidence of your wishes and reasons for not including certain people.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:53:04

Aka77

What is the best way to leave money so that any horses you own at the time of your death are cared for. A solicitor suggested leaving the horses and a donation to an equine charity. This is not a safe strategy as charities will use the money as they see fit and cannot prioritise the horse the money was intended for.

There are a few Equine Charities that offer a service whereby provision can be made in your Will for the charity to care for your horse on your death, for example, Blue Cross, World Horse Welfare or HAPPA. Whilst a gift in your Will to contribute towards the cost of caring for your horse is appreciated, is in not usual to be able to attach a sum of money to a specific animal, as this can cause administrative issues for the charity. I would recommend contacting the charities directly to discuss exactly what their individual schemes offer, so that you can determine which one works best for your circumstances and can provide the care you require for your horse.

An alternative to this, would be to create a Trust in your Will in which you provide funds for a trusted person to look after your horse after your death. However, this would need very careful wording and you would need to take advice from a specialist trusts solicitor to ensure that it is practical and workable. It will therefore be more costly to put into place and is likely to require a larger sum of money to be set aside in your Will. Cancer Research UK’s Free Will Service partner with local solicitors who can help you in writing your Will, however the cost will only be covered in full for a simple Will. If you did want to use the service, you would need to speak to a solicitor in advance to understand the additional costs around the complexities of creating a Trust.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:54:12

Tink75

I would like to complete Power of Attorney for my two sons one of whom lives abroad can I complete forms and send them to him to sign? Is this expensive ?

Lasting Powers of Attorney (LPAs) are useful documents which ensure that your affairs are looked after by the people that you have nominated (in this instance, your sons) if you are physically or mentally unable to manage your own affairs during your lifetime. There are two types of LPAs; one relating to decisions about your Financial Affairs and the other relating to decisions about your Health and Welfare. An LPA cannot be used by your Attorneys until it is registered with the Office of Public Guardian. It is worth noting that this only authorises your Attorneys to manage your affairs in your lifetime and therefore it is important to consider making or updating your Will to ensure that someone is nominated as your Executor to administer and distribute your Estate after your death.

You are able to make and register Lasting Powers of Attorney yourself. The Gov.UK website has standard forms and information on their website. Alternatively you might want to seek professional advice and help with this process and I would recommend that you contact a Legal Adviser for a quote, but this is not something that is covered by Cancer Research UK’s Free Will Service.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:54:35

fishnships

If I want to change my will do I just write another one, get it signed then throw away the original?

The general principle is that any previous Will is automatically revoked by making a new Will but, in order to avoid any confusion usually a clause is included in your Will stating that previous Wills are revoked. Once you have executed your new Will, your old Will can be destroyed if you chose to do so or retained alongside the new version.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:55:23

eaglestone

Is it a good idea to include my secret passwords to all my online bank and building society accounts when I make a will, or would access be given automatically to my online accounts when I die?

When you pass away, your executors will contact the various banks and building societies with which you hold accounts in order to gather information about your estate assets. These institutions normally only require a copy of your death certificate in order to release the information about the accounts you hold with them. You therefore shouldn’t need to provide passwords for these when making a will. It is also very common for passwords to change throughout our lives so trying to keep this information up to date with your will file may also prove difficult to manage. If you have other questions about what will happen with the executing of your Will when you pass away, you may be able to get these answered upon writing a Will with Cancer Research UK’s Free Will Service – which partners with local solicitors all across the UK.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:56:04

PamelaJ1

We have just given our youngest daughter £100,000 to help her buy a house.
Our eldest daughter doesn’t need money at the moment and was happy about this but I don’t want her to lose out. The amount we gave DD2 was the equivalent to 2/5 of the value. Should it be revalued on our death or should we have our house valued and leave a bigger proportion to DD1?

If you wish to ensure that your oldest daughter receives an equivalent value when you pass away, it is possible to include your oldest daughter as a beneficiary of a “pecuniary gift” in your will. This is a gift of money paid before your estate is divided between your residuary beneficiaries. Pecuniary gifts can also be linked to the Bank of England rates so that your daughter would receive a value which is equivalent to £100,000 today. If you did wish to include a gift such as this in your will, it would be important to discuss the reasoning and rationale with your will writer so that they can include relevant information with your will to help avoid any confusion in the future as to why one daughter would appear to be receiving more over the other.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:56:40

pamelaJEAN

We have two daughters, and have made our wills out to leave equal amounts to each daughter, what would happen if something happened to one of my daughters, would the monies automatically go to her husband.

It is not automatic and your Wills should outline how your Estate is to be distributed if one of your daughters did happen to die before you. I would recommend reviewing your Wills to check the provisions and, if there are no substitutionary beneficiaries named, consider updating your Will. If you need further advice please feel free to contact one of our Free Wills Service Solicitors - cruk.org/freewillservice who will be able to help you update your Wills.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:57:56

albertina

My elder daughter has been very generous to me and I want this reflected in the amount of money she receives when I die. Her sister is bound to resent this and fight it. Is my word final ?

This is a very similar question to an earlier one, in England, Wales and Northern Ireland, you have the freedom in your Will to leave a financial gift to any individuals or organisations that you wish. You do not have to include any family members at all. This is known as testamentary freedom.

In Scotland, there is an exception to this freedom, known as Legal Rights. This gives a spouse/civil partner and the children of the deceased the right to claim a proportion of the moveable (non-property) assets of the estate. This is a form of ‘forced heirship’, meaning it is an automatic right that cannot be argued against – once claimed, it must be settled. Legal Rights do not apply to siblings.

However, in the whole of the UK, it is possible for a Will to be contested by interested parties or for a claim to be made against the estate after death. It could be that someone tries to challenge the validity of the Will in some way, for example, by saying the person did not have capacity to make it, made the Will under undue influence or that it was not executed properly. Or certain individuals may claim they were financially dependent on the deceased. While it is not possible to completely eliminate the chance of a successful challenge/claim, you can reduce the likelihood by seeking independent legal advice when drafting your Will, so that there is further evidence of your wishes and reasons for not including certain people.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:59:00

Lollin

Our library has a book about how to write your will. Why not just diy?

It is not essential to use a professional to write your Will and there are now more choices than ever with online Wills, home Will packs and so on. However, there are common pitfalls that people can fall into if they choose to write their own Will which can be avoided by using a professional. We would always recommend that you take proper advice and Cancer Research UK offers a Free Will Service which allows anyone 18+ to easily write or update a simple Will for free. Most people who use the service pledge a gift to the charity as well. You can follow this link to find your local partnered solicitor:
www.cancerresearchuk.org/get-involved/leave-a-legacy-gift-in-your-will/free-will-service#howyoucanwriteyourwill

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 09:59:34

IamaWallis2

I want one of my sons as my executor. I don't understand what is probate. Why would he need to apply for it - or not.

If you make a Will, you are free to name one of your sons (or anyone you wish) as your executor. It would be a good idea to discuss this with your son in advance to make sure he is happy to take on this responsibility. It could also be worthwhile naming a second executor, who could act in place of your son, just in case he is unable to act when the time comes.

The Grant of Probate is a legal document which confirms details of the person who has died and who is acting as the executor. This document is very important as it is documentary proof that the executor has the authority to deal with all the assets in the deceased person’s estate. For example, banks and companies may need to see the Grant of Probate before they will release assets to the executor. Every organisation will have its own rules about whether probate is needed or not, so the executor should check with all the asset holders before applying for probate.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 10:26:06

rags

How long does it take to receive the proceeds from a will?

The time it takes for an estate to be administered and distributed varies considerably. It depends upon the assets within the estate, for example, if there is a property it usually takes some time to market and sell the property. Also, some Executors might not need to obtain a Grant of Probate to collect the assets in an Estate but most Executors do and Probate applications can take at least 12 weeks. If you are a beneficiary in an Estate, it might be helpful to speak to the Executor to understand the steps involved which will give you an idea of timescales.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 10:28:17

Iamyyewalnut84

If there’s no will and you have nothing but sentimental possessions- is it a problem?

If you pass away without a Will this is called dying intestate and your Estate will be distributed in accordance with the Rules of Intestacy. The Rules provide a strict order of who is to inherit, irrespective of your wishes. They also do not include unmarried partners, step children, friends or good causes close to your heart. If you have no Will and no surviving blood family, the Rules provide that your Estate would go to the Crown. This might mean that your estate including any cherished sentimental possessions will not be distributed in the way you expect. Making a Will is therefore the best way to ensure that everything in your estate is distributed according to your wishes. It is also commonplace for your funeral wishes to be expressed in your Will and I have known it to be a great comfort to many people to know that they are carrying out their loved one’s last wishes.

Making a Will doesn’t have to be costly. Many charities, including Cancer Research UK, have their own free Will writing service which allows you to create a simple Will (for example where you leave your entire estate to your children) for free.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 10:29:37

ronisapphire

Is 12 years too long a time to contest a will?

There are different time limits which depend upon the reason why you are contesting a Will. Generally most claims against a Will must be made within 6 months from when the Grant of Probate was issued. In some cases, the Court might allow claims beyond the 6 month period but it would be rare. There are, however, other types of claim which have a longer time period so I would recommend speaking to a legal adviser who can provide further tailored advice for your situation.

RebeccaMassey Thu 16-Mar-23 10:30:28

Nikkidmh

I originally wrote my will with a will writing company and they hold the original copy. When I wanted to change it a couple of years ago and phoned them, they had changed their name but had not informed me of this and I don’t know if they are even still in existence now as I have had no other need to contact them. If they have changed names again or have disappeared is my will still legally binding wherever it may now be?

This must be incredibly frustrating for you. Your last Will is still legally binding. If you have been unable to track down your Will I would recommend making a new Will. This would revoke your previous lost Will, which would avoid any uncertainty or confusion for your Executors. You might like to consider using one of our Free Wills Service. There’s information on how to use it on our Cancer Research UK website and you can find out more at www.cancerresearchuk.org/get-involved/leave-a-legacy-gift-in-your-will/free-will-service