Bra woes

JessM I have the same problem and am the same size as you. I have solved it although not satisfactorily by wearing M&S T shirt bras that are slightly padded. This gives an illusion of similarity in boob size. I find them quite comfortable.

However, my 'missing bit' is high up close to the breastbone on the left breast and shows clearly no matter what I wear. I've just decided to put up with it, regard it as a badge of honour for being a survivor. Needless to say I don't usually wear low cut tops. Wired bras were dumped after my surgery. Far too painful! And they would just enhance the gap

Have you tried going to the BreastCancerCare web site. You may get some suggestions of suppliers there. It has a good forum.

Bra woes revitalised!
It is still the case that my most comfy bra is an ancient blue one I bought in a mall Houston in 2001 and that is the one I am wearing now. It will be a sad day when it falls apart. The name of the brand long since washed away.
I did however find some not-wired ones in Debenhams that are fine - except they were sewed with that spiky fishing line stuff, so required a little trimming off with a nail scissors. This sort of thing:

www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10701_10001_152010874263_-1

Just discovered Per Una bras at M&S very comfortable.

My bras are very functional and usually M&S.

I cannot imagine thongs being at all comfortable! I would think the strap between the buttocks would play merry hell with ones piles!

A bit like floss Nellie?

I'd rather wear nothing!

Ana Well it might have that sort of action, but I am not in the habit of flossing my piles.

ANA you saucy minx , bet mr Anna is thrilled though !

Thinking about it, a tight thong might just work to cut of the blood supply so they just drop off. Don't they use a treatment a bit like that?

Its time I stopped getting silly and went back to my cooking.

I meant I'd rather go knickerless than wear a thong, Nonu!

You're the saucy minx!

Yeah , and don"t I know it !!

Long may it continue !!

I only wear thongs and if you get the right size (very large) and stretchy, you can't tell you're wearing anything!

You don't know what you're missing

Oh lona I just think I could fancy them .
{wink]

Where do you buy yours from?

Not M&S! Anywhere as long as they are big and stretchy enough. I won't buy sets (bra/bottoms) as not many have thongs anymore.

But if they're that big and stretchy, Lona, don't they look a bit....er....droopy?

Be more specific
Purleese

I think you know very well what I mean, Nonu!

Just want to know where LONA gets her thongs from , no harm in that!!!!!!

Oh I see, you were talking to Lona - sorry!

Oh you two! Matelan, Sainsbury, Tesco or John Lewis if they're really nice.

No they aren't 'droopy' because they stretch!

Hmm...I'm not convinced a droopy stretchy, large thong really appeals to me - but each to her own!

I bought a 'genie' bra from Boots to wear at the gym [and a similar black one from Asda] and find myself wearing them all the time. They're really warm as well [in fact I feel the cold when I don't wear them]. You can insert your own padding inside as well [I'm thinking of the 'chicken fillets' that my daughter used to have]. They cost about £10 [and I've spent a fortune on Marie Jo and Lejaby bras over the years.

What ever size I bet it would still irritate the piles!