There is a returns label included from John Lewis and you just return it free via Royal Mail. And collection is free from any John Lewis/Waitrose. 
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Yearly clothes budget
(96 Posts)This year I have kept a note of everything I've spent on clothes (including a handbag).
To date I have spent about £450, which is less than I would have expected if I hadn't been counting.
I don't know whether I am being thrifty or spending more than average.
janeainsworth I may be wrong but I think you have to return items to John Lewis, not Waitrose. At least that's how it works here.
Does anyone have any links to good, quality, vintage clothing, online shops? Love the idea of vintage. When I was in my early 20's I wore my Grandmother's 1930's suede jacket until it literally fell to pieces.
Flickety If you have a Waitrose near you it might be worth shopping online at John Lewis. They will deliver to your nearest Waitrose, you can try on in the comfort of your own home and check the accessories you'll be wearing with the dress or whatever.
If you want to return the stuff you just take it back to Waitrose. Not sure if they charge for this kind of delivery, but there's no waiting in for the delivery man -works well for me.
FlicketyB I hope you find something in Oxford. I love shopping in the High Street where there are a number of good quality shops.
Damn the Internet! An email popped up from East advertising sales bargains. Absentmindedly browsed. Fell for and ordered a top. It's far too fancy. I'll hardly ever go anywhere where I can wear it. Love it. Damn the Internet!
Penstemon, that had occurred to me but unfortunately the towns I shop in are not particularly affluent, none of them can support even one slightly upmarket dress shop, New Look, Bon Marche and Dorothy Perkins is about as far up as they go, so there were very few dresses at all in the charity shops, mainly well worn separates.
need to go into Oxford next week and I am hoping to find the time for a quick hop, skip and jump around the shops then. My main problem is that I am away on holiday for a fortnight from next week, arriving back one day before the first event.
I love to buy quality on eBay, if it's not quite right it can be relisted sometimes getting more than I paid for it. Love Phase 8 and Kaliko.
Often get quality in Pre-Loved shops, bought fabulous brand new Fitflops last week still in box with price label of £80 for £25.
As mentioned by Pittcity, great if you know what brands suit and fit.
I know exactly which Fantasie bra style/size fits well and have bought two brand new on eBay for £7 each with £2 p & p - retailing at £38 each.
Love the Phase 8 column dress.
I am trying to 'buy less and wear more' (I think it's a Gok quote.) I have invested in a few cheap coloured belts and am wearing things that I didn't know were in my wardrobe. I have decided to buy one or two quality items (preferably in the sale or charity shop) and wear them to death rather than the loads of cheap tat that I used to wear twice before I got fed up of it or it fell to bits!
My evening dresses are all from Ebay and cost less than £20 each. I know the brands that fit and suit me and you'd be surprised how many people spend hundreds on a dress, wear it once and put it up for sale...
There also seem to be more "Vintage" shops popping up round here selling stuff I wore the first time round!!
I like Phase 8 too and paid full price for the dress I wore to DD1's wedding - then sold it on Ebay.
I love Phase 8 dresses and have two in my wardrobe at the moment. However, I usually find they never look as good as they should when I try them on ( apart from the two I bought of course)
Is it this one Galen?
It looks fabulous!
Give us a link pretty please because I'm too idle to search myself
Just bought a phase eight column illusion evening dress.( not in the sale)
gillie and galen - if you can afford it,buy - nothing wrong with that
My sentiments exactly.
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Gillie and Galen - if you can afford it, buy it- nothing wrong with that
I'm afraid I'm a spendthrift
I know I spend far too much on clothes. I try to buy in sales but my weight keeps yo-yoing due to alternate cruising and dieting.
I like East, Phase eight, Chesca and Winsmoor.
Shoes I find impossible due to my arthritic feet. Hotter do very few EEEE fittings and the only ones are frumpy!
Reminds mr, I MUST HAVE a new evening dress for the upcoming cruise.
Off to look at john Lewis sale!
I have just asked DH how much I spend on clothes (he keeps the spreadsheets on his laptop) and am almost embarrassed to admit that this year so far it is £570, but last year it was £750 in total. I am a bit taken aback, tbh. I did lose 5 st last year, though, so I obviously had lots of new clothes, and now I am so pleased with my new slimmish figure that I just love buying things. I do keep on thinking that what I ought to do is buy fewer, better quality things so that's what I am aiming for.
I've just had a bonus find. Looking for a warmer top in what was laughingly called the spare bedroom, I came across 4 jumpers I bought from Woolovers in the winter sale. 
Flickety don't know where you live but if there is a reasonably 'well to do area'nearby trawl the charity shops! If I was not so fat I could do most of my clothes shopping in the local charity shops where the women from the big houses empty their wardrobes! Especially dressy stuff that has been bought for an 'occasion' and then not needed again!
With two invites to fairly smart lunch engagements in the offing I realised I don't have a single smart outfit, apart from a long sleeveless shift bought last summer for an evening do and the dress I generally refer to as my funeral dress, sadly I have need that more than any smart outfit this year.
I am now going to have to do some clothes shopping in probably the worst shopping month of the year, summer stuff limited to the unwearable and autumn clothing only beginning to trickle in.
I spend as little as possible on clothing, as I live on a very tight budget and any spare money I prefer to spend on doing things rather than having things. I have a hierarchy of clothes - from going out, to less smart going out, to wearing round the house, to gardening, to decorating, to bin. I would like to have a bit more to spend on clothes, but find that in retirement I don't really need that many. In the winter, I live in thermals, long socks and fleeces with jeans. As long as I have 2 or 3 decent outfits for when I go out or away, I don't really mind too much.
I know I am fortunate to have a decent pension plus I still do some freelance work as does DH. However I appreciate that many GNers , for various reasons, may not be in that same position. I have friends who are v.tight budgets and it does make me more careful as I know I have more than enough clothes really and I should be more thrifty rather than prodigal.
It makes me so relieved that I always paid the full NI rate and never the married woman's rate and always contributed to an occupational pension. DH and I always agreed how much money came from each of us to the family bank account and after that it was nobodies business how we spent our personal money. I have always been free to spend as much or as little on clothes, or anything else for that matter, as I choose, within my means, of course.
Ana you ask about my allowance! which perhaps is the wrong word. When I retired and no longer had my money coming in DH set up a standing order of £150 per month going into my personal account so that I still felt I had a small wage. However if I want anything over the £150 I just have it. It's nothing draconian or male dominated.
My feet have got wider all of a sudden. I reckon I have spent about £400 in the last month alone replacing all my favourite shoes.
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