I just want to be pretty!

I am not advocating the ole 'getting your colours done' not sure if one still can but I am being a lot braver about colours.

There are a few shops that have quite a decent range of colours at any one time and its no bad idea to either go alone...or with a trusted friend and try colours on that you normally avoid. Just holding them up in a good light is enough.
Sea Salt, Mistral and Fat Face spring to mind but I'm sure there are others that let you experiment in a reasonably small place....huge Dept stores are just too confusing (to me anyway)

I agree with growing your hair a bit longer. Hair really is your crowning glory. As someone who has lost their hair, I can never understand people who have beautiful hair cut short. I have a blonde bob just below my chin and I have a fringe. Not my own hair, but a hair system, but it has taken years off me.

Nice and cool? It's been decidedly parky here today! But maxi-skirts do look good with boots.

Most of the make up counters do free make overs and you don't have to buy though obviously that's their aim.

A lot of the counters at places like Debenhams do makeovers. Or you could check into a beauty salon and get some ideas - treat yourself to a manicure and pedicure at the same time.

Dig out those skirts - maxi skirts in particular are very fashionable at the moment and make you feel girly plus are nice and cool

Lovely ideas- thanks, I will dig out my tunics and leggings which are currently at the back of the cupboard! Actually I love wearing skirts and dresses but as I don't work any longer I always think I am too dressed up if I wear them. Does that make sense?

Re: hair - I once tried on a wig and honestly I looked like a bad (V bad) drag artist!

I do wear make up -(mascara, foundation) but I feel it doesn't quite work. Where would you go for a make over ?

BTW how come some people just have style and some of us are permanently bewildered.!

Oh - and I alway thought I was a no frills type, until I saw a video of myself and was very surprised at how feminine I looked, especially my hands. So maybe you could film and photograph yourself.

Or have some professional photos made, just for yourself, to remind you that you can look really nice with a little extra effort. The photographer may have some tips for you.

The secret is in the vibes you give off. Act confident, even if you don't feel it for the moment. Lipstick, clean teeth, a smile, shoulders back, chest out. Look as though you own the place. But at the same time, look people in the eye and listen to them.

Actually, I think I ought to try listening to my own advice. Watch this space!

Good suggestions from others, I agree that tunics, leggings and jewellery maybe the way to go. Don't forget your feet, pixie boots are charming with leggings.

Perhaps changing your glasses, something with a little sparkle or interesting colour?

Perfume can make you feel feminine. Experiment with some cheap items and see how you feel.

Or buy a wig if you can't wait for your hair to grow - you'd be amazed at the difference and these days they're so good most people never notice you're wearing one!

Find a supplier where you can try before you buy, and take a friend with you for support and advice.

If you don't want to start wearing skirts and/or dresses, what about smart trousers with tunic tops or casual jackets?

Good luck!

Grow your hair a bit longer, and change style of clothes, jeans and tunic tops with a scarf or a bit of jewellery. have your ears pierced, then you can wear pretty ear rings.Wear a bit of make up.If you don't have all grey hair, have some highlights or change hair colour.