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Wouldn’t it be nice......

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Poppyred Tue 17-Jul-18 16:12:39

If fashion designers asked us what we wanted to wear as clothes! Fed up of nighties with flowers on, why do they think that older ladies want flowers stamped on their clothes???? Short dresses that show wrinkly knees? No thank you. Scoop necks that show wrinkly décolletage? No thanks. And the list goes on........ Apparently our age group have more money to spend on clothes than the younger generation but there aren’t any decent ones out there ☹️☹️

alchemilla Wed 18-Jul-18 10:51:58

Hobbs have some good Tshirts. I was given one once - and have bought from it again because the Tshirts last much longer than others. Zara isn't bad for clothes, but they haven't heard of resizing so a 10 is an old 10, not a 12 pretending to be a 10, which can be quite a shock. Another here that hates M&S colours and fabrics - what's with lilac? and the embroidery?

Jan51 Wed 18-Jul-18 11:01:32

I buy most of my clothes from Bonmarche. Tops wash well, jeans are a good fit and I like their pj's (don't do nightdressess). My body is what it is and I don't worry about showing arms or chest as long as I'm comfortable. Hate shopping in M&S or any large department store since they stopped having all the similar items together e.g. trouser department, dress department etc

Willow500 Wed 18-Jul-18 11:06:15

I don't wear nightwear in bed (at the moment I can't even 'wear' a sheet) but do have quite a few pairs of pj's from Matalan/Tu which are either plain or patterned which I put on for decency in the morning. I too buy a lot of my clothes from QVC as I find they fit and wash well. The last few times I've been in M&S I've never seen anything remotely nice - I miss BHS sad

Hilltopgran Wed 18-Jul-18 11:06:22

I like Landsend for quality t-shirts, they just do not wear out. Lots of plain colours and different neck and sleeve lengths.

They also do a plain style night dress like a long t-shirt, really comfortable to wear in a choice of lengths.

I have to agree about dresses, everything seems sleeveless and not cover the knee, yet I have more money available to spend on myself than when I was younger.

Blinko Wed 18-Jul-18 11:10:17

Why isn't anybody out there in the world of retail listening?
THE OVER 60s HAVE MORE MONEY TO SPEND

Re plain tops, I'm another fan of Bonmarche. Which my cleaner calls Bob Martins, for some reason...

Lindylo Wed 18-Jul-18 11:10:36

Doesn't anyone sell reasonable skirts anymore? I've been looking for a summer one but apart from really short versions and lacey teenage ones I can't find anything suitable that isn't for an aged aunt.

VIOLETTE Wed 18-Jul-18 11:14:08

Oh yes ! frustrating isn't it ....no cotton dresses long enough for me, at 70 and 5'9 I don't want to show my knees every time ...also like Bonmarche (cos they do mail order to France) got a bargain satin cotton dress in Debenhams ..£45 reduced to £25 and then ...wait for it ...£13 ! so what's not to like !! I also found some lovely dresses in J D WILLIAMS but sadly they don't deliver to France ....really pretty, cotton and good prices !

I resorted to buying some cotton material and a pattern in Spring, but sadly it is still in the bag ..........................oh dear ! looks like another table cloth might be in order .............

I do wish the fashion people would LISTEN to what we want ! grrrrrr

AlieOxon Wed 18-Jul-18 11:29:06

.....and some of us older ones don't have more money to spend.

My chief but is that Sainsbury's seem to have stopped selling long sleeved T-shirts at all! Plain ones.

And the one I had from there, a nice cream one to go with a fancy top over, for posh, has walked - where to? Vanished for two years, and I never wore it.

AlieOxon Wed 18-Jul-18 11:30:40

Men's plain T-shirts, I mean - the women's are always too short for me.

mokryna Wed 18-Jul-18 11:34:45

Hate shopping, had to buy a v necked long-short sleeve
t-shirt as others were too old to wear. Looked everywhere, nothing in favourite shops. Wandered into a never-step into shop, as am too old, etam, and found a T Trendy. Surprise!

MissAdventure Wed 18-Jul-18 11:34:48

I find Sainsburys clothes to be good quality and long lasting.

Margs Wed 18-Jul-18 11:37:33

Indeed Poppyred. We seem to get offered a 'vast' choice of just two looks - the late Queen Mother and Mutton-Dressed-as-Lamb!

Just wait until these designer types eventually get old - I hope they spend the rest of their days in a care home being spoon fed pureed cabbage and pureed economy fish fingers whilst being forced to wear their own dire creations - acrylic 'sensible' cardigans in pastel shades or leopard print crop tops!

Ha1Ha!Ha!

mabon1 Wed 18-Jul-18 11:45:08

Gudrun Sjonsen great for every age and size and arm covering too

Emelle Wed 18-Jul-18 11:51:58

I was a big fan of Whitestuff but they seem to have gone more like Per Una at M & S. I have done very well at Seasalt this last year but they do seem to repeat same styles in different colours so guess I may get bored with them eventually. My real challenge is getting trousers and jeans to fit as I have a small rear and slim thighs so most makes are too baggy. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

gillyknits Wed 18-Jul-18 12:09:46

I found reasonbly priced plain t shirts in M&Co. They have the slightly longer short sleeve that M&S used to do.
Not too expensive either. I used to love Landsend but they have put their prices up too much for my liking.

Nanny27 Wed 18-Jul-18 12:45:04

Just sitting here agreeing with most but feeling incredibly depressed because unlike emelle my thighs and rear end are not.

willa45 Wed 18-Jul-18 12:48:04

Disparate sizing is my pet peeve! Depending on where clothes are made, a "Large" ends up being no bigger than a 'small' or 'medium' in the rest of the world. ....and never mind that oversized shirt with the tiny sleeve openings, or pullover sweaters that are strategically narrowed to enhance your fat 'belly' area only, yet fit nicely everywhere else!

willa45 Wed 18-Jul-18 13:02:37

Emelle, have you tried using loose leggings as 'pants'? Last year, I bought a pair of 'Jean' leggings (thicker fabric), but got them a size larger since I didn't want them to be formfittingly snug.

Being one size bigger, they look more like 'skinny' jeans than true leggings. They cost half of what jeans would have and turned out to be a nice fit (I have skinny legs too).

BonnieBlooming Wed 18-Jul-18 13:05:24

In defence of M&S in love their half sleeve t shirts. They come in plain colours and nice prints, wash well and are good value. Admittedly I don't buy much else from Marks.

Emelle Wed 18-Jul-18 13:31:24

willa45 - Thank you for that - I'll try some. I do like my jeans though and the best pair I ever had were NYJD but as I am now retired, I really can' t justify paying so much for them.

Blue45Sapphire Wed 18-Jul-18 14:10:39

I got a really nice nightie from M&S, navy and white Breton stripe, below the knee (never worn in bed though, except if the GDGs are staying over); bought it really for slobbing around first thing in the morning and getting a few jobs done. And it was free, because I had a £10 voucher to be spent on nightwear.

Poppyred Wed 18-Jul-18 14:21:14

But they are fitted! Box shape would be much nicer!

ShewhomustbeEbayed Wed 18-Jul-18 15:08:45

Hush do really nice cotton long sleeved t shirts and vests

Liz46 Wed 18-Jul-18 15:13:25

Strangely I found a dress in M&S this year that I like. Unfortunately it is sleeveless so I bought a little bolero from Wallis. My OH says I worry too much about my arms and in this hot weather, I have taken the bolero off a couple of times. The dress has a zip at the front so I can choose how high or low I want it. We have a very large M&S near us and normally I am amazed that I am unable to find anything I like.

Pinny4 Wed 18-Jul-18 15:15:08

Poppyred, I do so much agreewith you.
These fashions are pre-set a year early by the designers who are mainly male and with young women in mind. They are paraded on the catwalks then given free to famous women who will wear them and their fashions will then be sought after by the rest of the flock. Even if not sought after that is what will be found in the shops!
Now as far as retailers are concerned they just want to make profits so they need to wake up and demand a better selction to cater for all who have money to spend in their shops and stores. Many times I have gone clothes shopping and come home with my bank balance still intact.
They say M and S is closing stores down and they make more profit out of the food stores than from clothing.
..Yes, they really ought to ask all of us what we would like to wear and not be slaves to the designers.
Their loss. Our loss.