What would make me look younger?

In defence of flannels GillT I have found them to be a good, cheap exfoliator. After the scrub then comes the judicious application of some makeup.

I don't think it is a case of wishing to look younger than one actually is, it is more a case of not falling into the trap of certain hairstyles, manmade fibres, elasticated waists etc. I disagree about make up, I think that good make up, lightly and well applied can brighten up anyone. Not slapped on, just a light tinted moisturiser or light foundation, shaped and thickened eyebrows, little sweep of mascara and a bit of colour on what can be very pale lips; the just scrubbed with flannel look is very ageing to my mind.

We have a new neighbour, I met her first in the rain and was struck my her smile and vivacity despite the weather. Over the last few months we have stopped and gossiped about all sorts, sometimes over the garden walls sometimes sitting outside in garden. She has not had the easiest life but is always busy and motivated. She keeps very fit but otherwise pays little attention to her appearance. Her hair is often just scraped back in a knot or a comb and her dress is sporty or casual with hardly a trace of make-up. Mentally I had put her down as barely 40, have since found out she's over 50. Its not so much her face or her figure, its just her upbeat cheerful attitude and no nonsense approach that is totally ageless. Its a real tonic to see her and to be with her. The opposite of those dreary types you seem to suck the joy out of life. Its very attractive and I wish I could emulate it a bit more!

I know this is a fairly lighthearted thread but it has made me think. I have one relative who certainly would be in the ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ category. She’s really neurotic and nervous. I known lots of colleagues who dress beautifully and have natural style but spend a great deal of time on diets. I know others who follow every twist and turn of what’s in and worry about getting old. I have one most wonderful friend who when I was chatting about struggling with looking older told me to get rid of most of the mirrors because she just gets up, washed, brushes her hair, puts in her teeth and stumbles out. She always looked older than she is, her sense of style is definitely well worn and comfortable but thinking about it she’s the happiest person I know, she’s comfortable in her own skin. I wish I could be like her. She’s my hero.

Why don't you want to look the age you are? I do and am quite happy with it. Whether you are 60, 70, 80 or 90, you can look and be who you are quite happily without trying to pretend you are something else. You've been there and it's over.

Do rather admire Pru Leith's style, her use of plain bold colour with very interesting objects around her neck. She doesn't overdo the make-up, looks groomed and most importantly she smiles! As a glasses wearer myself I love hers.

Gloria is rather orange and tiny, in the flesh.

I never cease to wonder at the number and variety of Gloria Hunniford's necklaces. I'm sure she must have a walk-in wardrobe just for them. You'd need a long, elegant neck to carry one of those off.

I do the same thing, OldMeg. I have a very kind mirror in my bedroom and a cruel, unforgiving one in the bathroom. Bathroom mirror helps me put my makeup on accurately and bedroom mirror helps me out of the door feeling confident

Very 80s and unfashionable, unless they are ENORMOUS and you are under 40

I think they’re fine, merlot, as long as they’re not worn with earrings. One or the other, imho.

And Theresa May.

Not a fan.

So what's the take on clunky necklaces like Gloria Hunniford wears? I think they're ageing and prefer a simple pendant or something light and understated.

Why do 83% of older married men wear beige all the time? Some even wear beige shoes and have beige hankies. Often their wives are spectacular Birds of Paradise, elegant and smiley. Do these men also have beige minds?
GrannyGravy13; The above appeared in a posting way back 18/10/12.
There were also references then of Grandads being "hounded off". Not surprising they left if that was the prevailing attitude.

"The more things change, the more they stay the same!"

Some have said being overweight ages you. Yes it does if you are very overweight but I know some who have dieted and lost a lot of weight who now look 10 years older because of the wrinkles. There is a happy medium!

I love Bravissimo, muffin! I went in and said “I want modern boobs” and the lady knew just what I meant. Bra shapes change with the times and sticking to a past favourite is what dates you!

feel sad for Doreen. She was one of my mates.

Not the Doreen!! That pointy conical horror must have been John Paul Gaultier’s inspiration!! Mum forced me to wear one at school when everyone else had a Wonderbra

Would suggest Freya or Panache. The Panache Clara is a lovely supportive full cup and comfortable. Definitely get a fitting though as Panache also tend to run small in the back.

I may be an ex employee but Bravissimo will always get my full recommendation for fittings and style selection. Beware the M&S fitters, they are no longer fully trained as they once were and you have an excellent chance of walking out with the wrong size.

Loopyloo you can dye your eyebrows at home, and it does make your face look better IMO. Boots sell a kit which is simple to use. Which reminds me....

I think eating too many stodgy carbs make me look older , I get jowly and saggy , physically and mentally !
It's my grandson 3 rd birthday today so more cake ! Yippee but sensible eating must start tomorrow , lovely new Autumn clothes in the shops - I love Jenni Murray scarves !

Can anyone suggest a better bra than Doreen?
So am thinking about botox for my frown lines.
Asking about dying my eyebrows or having eyebrows tattooed to make them look better.
Ordering more contact lenses.
Making an effort to get out of the house and mingle with people.

loopyloo
A DOREEN bra...?
Is that still advertised in the back pages of the DM on a weekend?
I'm sure there are prettier uplifting styles to be found.

Yesterday you looked younger than you did today. And being the age you are beats the alternative...other than that, have a friend who’s botoxed, put some godawful stringy uplift thing into her face. Yeh she looks fresh. Each to their own. I’m embracing my sad old. I

Also. Didn’t know Theresa May is type 1 diabetic. All power to her. She’s doing her best in stressful times. I wouldn’t want her job.

Scarves hide a multitude of sins and add colour to your top line. And keep your neck warm! Jenny Murray does them wrong, Needs far more swoosh to it! Love her though.