Lessismore Do not be so foolish. Bigger ladies can and do look stunning. Look around you there are lots of really stylish larger ladies in supermarkets and generally going about their business. Anybody any size any age can look good
As Maya Angelou says in her poem Phenomenal Woman www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/48985/phenomenal-woman
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I’m telling lies.
I say,
It’s in the reach of my arms,
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I’m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.
There are 4 verses. I have given you the link.
Read the poem, all of it, then memorise it and each morning, as soon as you get up, you look in the mirror and say Maya's poem out loud so that you never agaim need to write: No idea what to wear. I look awful. 2/3 stone weight gain, I better just accept it and dress accordingly