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French chic……..can you create it?

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Sago Tue 30-Aug-22 08:05:54

We had dinner in a fabulous restaurant in Pau yesterday evening, there were many ladies of 50+ dining.
The vast majority of them looked effortlessly chic, it’s an incredible look, very little make up, understated but well cut clothes and classic hairstyling and jewellery.
Is this something that can be achieved or are these lucky French ladies born with it?

Yammy Sat 03-Sept-22 17:06:29

I never have intentionally set out to achieve French "Chic", and don't think the majority of them are very "chic",even in the cities I have visited. Certainly not in the country side.. Give me Italian style any day.

Casdon Sat 03-Sept-22 17:19:57

Joseanne

As a result of this thread I spent the morning scouring clothes shops over here and then did a bit of people watching from my table at lunchtime. What did I learn about French women's choice of clothes?

So, not many wear cardigans. If they do the younger women drape them off one shoulder, showing a strappy camisole underneath. More mature ladies clinch them in at the waist with a belt. I saw quite a lot of zip up cardigans, but very few with gaping buttons. Some jumpers had zips going diagonally which looked elegant.
Their trousers and jeans barely graze the ankles, they were all straight, not bootleg or wide.
Tweeds appears to be in the shops for the autumn and tartans too. Hang on a minute, didn't we, ie in Scotland, invent them?
The women had smaller busts than British women, and just to level up here the men had jackets, not fleeces, and wore smart shoes.

I quite enjoyed being an observer, and think I blended in ok with my blue jeans and Joules stripe top! The blonde hair and fair complexion gave me away though. ?? ??

Very interesting cardigan observation Joseanne, I’ve been looking for a zip up cardigan since I saw your post, but they seem to be as rare as hens teeth in the UK. I wonder why?

Serendipity22 Sat 03-Sept-22 18:19:08

I have been a visitor of the South of France over 20 times, I class it as absolute favourite place on earth ( apart from where I live of course ) and it has ALWAYS held me in awe of how effortlessly chic the French woman are, astounding.

smile

MissAdventure Sat 03-Sept-22 18:57:15

Surely, if someone sets out to create a look then it isn't effortless, so defeats the purpose?

foxie48 Sat 03-Sept-22 19:14:48

My recipe for "chic" is clothes that fit properly, the right shoes. a good hair cut, make up that enhances rather than dominates and great posture. Once all that is in place, the ability to forget about it and just be relaxed and happy. It's not about nationality, it's about attitude. No, I don't always have it but just sometimes I feel I'm almost there!

merlotgran Sat 03-Sept-22 19:21:10

I bought a zip up cardigan a couple of years ago but soon got fed up with it because the zip caused it to bulge when I sat down which was a very unflattering look.

Marydoll Sat 03-Sept-22 19:30:22

A few years ago, in Puerto Banus, I spotted a lady of my age, wearing a plain white shirt, with bracelet length sleeves, slim, ankle length, carmel coloured chinos and flat pumps, finished off with a little jewellery. She looked so elegant, dressed in the simplest of outfits.

I'm still trying to achieve that look!

Milly47 Sat 03-Sept-22 19:34:03

Marydoll

A few years ago, in Puerto Banus, I spotted a lady of my age, wearing a plain white shirt, with bracelet length sleeves, slim, ankle length, carmel coloured chinos and flat pumps, finished off with a little jewellery. She looked so elegant, dressed in the simplest of outfits.

I'm still trying to achieve that look!

I imagine in addition to the style of her clothes, she was probably slim, possibly tall and with good posture and well cut hair?

Callistemon21 Sat 03-Sept-22 19:40:10

Milly47

Marydoll

A few years ago, in Puerto Banus, I spotted a lady of my age, wearing a plain white shirt, with bracelet length sleeves, slim, ankle length, carmel coloured chinos and flat pumps, finished off with a little jewellery. She looked so elegant, dressed in the simplest of outfits.

I'm still trying to achieve that look!

I imagine in addition to the style of her clothes, she was probably slim, possibly tall and with good posture and well cut hair?

Was it me?! ?

Marydoll Sat 03-Sept-22 19:40:18

She was small like me, but did have well cut hair!

I have no chance of achieving taht look!

Callistemon21 Sat 03-Sept-22 19:42:59

Actually, I have a photo of me in shorts and t shirt, sandals, trying to look taller, slimmer and mysterious in sunglasses, standing by one of the large yachts in Puerto Banus.
It wasn't my yacht.

Joseanne Sat 03-Sept-22 19:48:31

Casdon these were the sort of cardis I meant. A label called Pause Café.

Marydoll Sat 03-Sept-22 19:49:25

Oh, was that you, Calli, standing next to MY superyacht? wink

Joseanne Sat 03-Sept-22 19:49:47

Here

Marydoll Sat 03-Sept-22 19:50:30

Joseanne

Casdon these were the sort of cardis I meant. A label called Pause Café.

You temptress! I'm now off to have a look!

Callistemon21 Sat 03-Sept-22 19:51:07

I was very envy Marydoll

Why didn't you invite me on board for a G&T?
Perhaps I didn't look chic enough.

Marydoll Sat 03-Sept-22 19:54:15

Calli, you looked so good, I was worried my verrrry rich boyfriend would fall for you! ?

Joseanne Sat 03-Sept-22 19:55:01

Marydoll

Joseanne

Casdon these were the sort of cardis I meant. A label called Pause Café.

You temptress! I'm now off to have a look!

Try

www.pausecafe.fr/automne-hiver-2022?lang=en

They might be available in UK.

Callistemon21 Sat 03-Sept-22 19:55:35

?
Was he Spanish?
I prefer a Frenchman myself wink

Marydoll Sat 03-Sept-22 19:57:51

A smouldering Italian.wink

In my dreams

Marydoll Sat 03-Sept-22 19:58:26

Joseanne, thanks!

Callistemon21 Sat 03-Sept-22 20:05:14

Marydoll

A smouldering Italian.wink

--In my dreams--

A smouldering Italian proposed to me years ago.

When I was about 17 I sent my photo to my Italian pen friend who showed it to her brother. Next thing I knew I had a love letter, photos of a handsome Italian looking moody, protestations of undying love, an invitation to Napoli and a proposal of marriage.

Idiot!
?

Callistemon21 Sat 03-Sept-22 20:06:25

Sorry, meandering.

I wasn't even chic.

Witzend Sat 03-Sept-22 20:30:07

Sago

Esmay Pau is one of the most affluent,cosmopolitan French cities I have visited.

How odd - I’ve just been re-reading The Last Chronicle of Barsetshire (Anthony Trollope) in which the son of a wealthy archdeacon says he’ll take his intended wife and go and live at Pau, because it’s cheap - after his father has threatened to cut off his income if he marries the daughter of an impoverished clergyman who’s been accused of theft.
That was set in around the 1860s though.

Kalu Sat 03-Sept-22 20:33:29

I will never forget…….one day whilst shopping in nearby Aix-en-Provence an Italian gentleman apologised for bumping in to me…looking down at me with smouldering eyes, sensuously saying, scusi, it was almost impossible to concentrate on what I was buying. Swoon!