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62Granny Fri 30-Jun-23 17:47:30

Following on from another thread, how much do you consider is a lot to spend on an everyday item of clothing?
I must admit I do shudder at spending loads on an item of clothing and anything over £30 for tops or bottoms or £50 for a dress ( I rarely buy or wear dresses) I will spend up to £100 for a good coat. I will look at items in sales usually online as I hate it when there are masses of clothes on rails all jumbled up.
I always think if you are spending £100 plus on one item then your shoes and bag also need to be of a very good quality too. But then I can't bring myself to wear that item as going to town or lunch type outfit.
Is it just me. I could afford it but something would hold me back.

Doodledog Sun 02-Jul-23 20:06:50

That will have a great 70s vibe with knee high boots.

Kate1949 Sun 02-Jul-23 20:01:56

Thank you smile

Sara1954 Sun 02-Jul-23 19:59:03

Kate1949
Pretty, I like it.

GrannyGravy13 Sun 02-Jul-23 19:48:34

I really like that dress blossoming you will look extremely stylish

Kate1949 Sun 02-Jul-23 19:33:14

I've just bought this. It's very much my style. I thought with espadrilles or something in summer and boots on winter. Freemans sale.

Marydoll Sun 02-Jul-23 19:09:02

My post probably ended up on WhatsApp. Another fine mess I have got myself into.😱

Blossoming Sun 02-Jul-23 19:04:28

Thank you Marydoll, I wonder where your post went? grin

The last dress I bought was before Christmas, from the Seasalt outlet on EBay which Maw introduced me to! It was a lovely needlecord shift dress, reduced to about £25. I’ve worn it quite a few times but it’s too warm for summer.

Casdon Sun 02-Jul-23 18:38:42

We all make choices, don’t we? I like clothes, but I don’t buy many these days because I have gone down the capsule wardrobe route so all my newer stuff goes together. What I do buy is to fill gaps, so I don’t mind spending a lot to get exactly what I want - but equally I’m delighted if I can get exactly what I want cheaper (I wish you hadn’t mentioned Otrium Marydoll, I’ve seen something I really like).
If this question had been asked about how much would you spend on your garden, or on a painting you loved, or on a meal at your favourite restaurant, or whatever, we’d have a whole range of answers too, people have different incomes, and they also prioritise what they spend it on completely differently.

Marydoll Sun 02-Jul-23 18:37:22

Who knows where I posted the error! I have seriously lost the plot!!!

Marydoll Sun 02-Jul-23 18:36:16

That was a mistake from my clipboard, when I was trying to copy and paste, when I was replying to a poster.

I was trying to tell Blossoming, her dress was lovely and to enjoy wearing it.

NOTE TO SELF Do not try and multi task, when posting. blush

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 02-Jul-23 18:25:53

It’s very pretty, but for that price where was it made?

Blossoming Sun 02-Jul-23 18:22:52

I love clothes threads, nothing cheers me up more than looking at frocks grin. We have some very stylish grans on here.

I have just treated myself to a new dress from New Look to wear to my birthday lunch with family next weekend. It was £23.99 but I had a 25% discount code so it’s cost me £17.99. I wasn’t especially looking for a bargain, it’s the style and colour I was looking for so the price is a bonus.

Rosalyn69 Sun 02-Jul-23 18:18:54

I like clothes. I buy a lot. Some are expensive and some are cheap. I don’t shop sales. My choice and DH doesn’t mind what I spend.

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 02-Jul-23 18:10:31

So saying what you spend on a few carefully chosen items in retirement, far less than what some spend on a lot of cheaper items because they can’t help themselves/can’t resist a bargain , and saying what you spent on something when you were working and are still wearing years later is tacky? Really?

Staceyann Sun 02-Jul-23 17:10:12

grin

Doodledog Sun 02-Jul-23 16:58:05

Germanshepherdsmum

The OP asked ‘how much do you consider is a lot to spend on an everyday item of clothing?’ It was a genuine and reasonable question. Can nobody be allowed to give an honest answer without being accused of boasting, even if their annual expenditure in retirement on very few pieces is far less than the expenditure of some on many pieces?

Yes, of course they can, whether their expenditure is tastefully restricted to a few couture pieces or frittered away on numerous Primark sale items.

People can talk about how much they earn, too - or what they pay their servants if they feel inclined, but it's still tacky {grin].

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 02-Jul-23 16:48:15

The OP asked ‘how much do you consider is a lot to spend on an everyday item of clothing?’ It was a genuine and reasonable question. Can nobody be allowed to give an honest answer without being accused of boasting, even if their annual expenditure in retirement on very few pieces is far less than the expenditure of some on many pieces?

Romola Sun 02-Jul-23 16:43:30

I'd love to have more opportunites to wear some stunning clothes, but the truth is that they don't come up too often for a widow pushing 80. My friends and neighbours are pretty comfortably off but everyone wears jeans most of the time. It's rather boring!
However, I think people spend a fair amount on their hair.

Doodledog Sun 02-Jul-23 16:41:35

I read what you are saying *Doodledog", but if you put a question about l a dress choice under the heading Style and Beauty, why is there any need to discuss the price? Perhaps people would prefer it under Pensions and Money?
There isn't a need, which is what I was saying smile). I suppose if someone said they were considering buying a dress on site A for £300 and someone else knew it was on Atrium or BrandAlley for £35 it would be appropriate to say so if it would save someone the difference, but generally gratuitous price mentioning often seems (to me) a bit tacky.

Marydoll Sun 02-Jul-23 16:36:20

That Otrium site is dangerous!, don't I know it!

BHF will need a van solely for my things, when my DD and DILs have to clear out my wardrobe s. blush. I have left my strict instructions. wink

Joseann Sun 02-Jul-23 16:32:39

Doodledog

People would buy what they like with their own money, and as I said upthread, I refuse to justify my spending to anyone, but I do think that naming figures is a bit tacky. As has been said, we all know that this is a broad church, and it doesn't take a high level of sensitivity to realise that someone struggling to buy enough food isn't going to feel comfortable reading about people spending hundreds on items of clothing, even though it's obvious that many can and do.

If you are looking up Otrium, GrannyGravy, check out Brandalley? They have some great buys, too.

I read what you are saying *Doodledog", but if you put a question about l a dress choice under the heading Style and Beauty, why is there any need to discuss the price? Perhaps people would prefer it under Pensions and Money?

That Otrium site is dangerous!

GrannyGravy13 Sun 02-Jul-23 16:17:05

JaneJudge I too confess to a weakness for the Habitat section of our local large Sainsbury’s, perhaps we should form a support group 😜

Marydoll Sun 02-Jul-23 16:15:02

JaneJudge, we are sympatico!

GrannyGravy13 Sun 02-Jul-23 16:14:53

Just joined Otrium why did I not know about this before 😸🤔

Doodledog Sun 02-Jul-23 16:14:34

People would buy what they like with their own money, and as I said upthread, I refuse to justify my spending to anyone, but I do think that naming figures is a bit tacky. As has been said, we all know that this is a broad church, and it doesn't take a high level of sensitivity to realise that someone struggling to buy enough food isn't going to feel comfortable reading about people spending hundreds on items of clothing, even though it's obvious that many can and do.

If you are looking up Otrium, GrannyGravy, check out Brandalley? They have some great buys, too.