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Is “sexy” what you want to be in your mid-80’s?

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RosiesMaw2 Sat 14-Sept-24 11:43:01

My heart sank when I saw the headline “Dame Prue Leith sexed -up”
Dame Prue Leith has been “sexed up” to walk the runway in a latex dress for avant-garde eco-designers Vin + Omi
The Bake Off judge, 84, appeared in the duo’s 20th anniversary show, Moxie, in Kensington as part of London Fashion Week wearing a black latex dress with red stitching and matching evening gloves
Speaking before the show, Omi told The Telegraph: “You’re going to see Prue Leith like you’ve never seen her before, not in your wildest dreams.
“. Even her husband doesn’t know what she’s wearing, he’s going to be shocked but he’s going to love it. We’re gonna sex her up. “
He added that Dame Prue, a close friend of the pair, is “game for anything
Laying my cards on the table
1) I don’t think black latex is “sexy” - I think it looks tarty and that is NOT the same thing
2) black and scarlet are such an unimaginative and hackneyed combination if looking glamorous is the intention
3) with trainers?
4) I think Prue Leith has her own, colourful style. I love the big glasses, the bold necklaces and adventurous colours - she generally looks fantastic.
“Sexed up” is not her style and it depresses me that yet another man seems to equate looking sexy with looking attractive.
🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

HeavenLeigh Mon 16-Sept-24 12:11:28

While I don’t think this is a good look on her or anyone else for that matter. Good on her. Just because you are in your later years why shouldn’t she if she wants to do it. I like the lady. I’m sure she had fun. I’d of done the same if I was lucky enough to reach 84. Shows she’s got a bit of spirit

mabon1 Mon 16-Sept-24 12:08:28

I'd wear those if I was paid a tidy sun for taking to the catwalk.
I'm 83 and always well turned out, always have been.

LucyAnna2 Mon 16-Sept-24 12:06:19

That’s a interesting article about it, Shysal - made me look at it differently. And PL said - Why did I do it? Because I adore the designers. The whole business is about helping organisations go zero carbon. The latex for my dress came from a rubber plantation and factory that they worked with for 12 years to change their practices. The clothes from their previous show was a collaboration with King Charles using fabrics made from plants grown in the royal gardens (my dress was made from willow bark). They are now on public exhibition at Sandringham. But most of all, I did it because, why not? Never say no, is my motto

NanKate Mon 16-Sept-24 10:39:44

Thank you Marydoll and Allira for owning up about the feet situation. Gone are the days of heels and smart shoes alas.
My favourite shoes in my late teens were sling backs green at the front with a black heel. I also had some with a strap around the ankle, that is of course before I got horrid fat ankles like I have now, well actually just one fat ankle.

Sorry as always I have gone off track.

Mollygo Mon 16-Sept-24 10:17:42

Casdon

Personally I’d rather be sexed up than dressed in a furry nappy as I’ve got a good idea of which looks most ridiculous to me Mollygo, but each to their own.

I still can’t find any images that claim that lacing an old man up like a cockroach makes him look sexy.
Now, if we talking ridiculous. . .
But as you say- each to their own

Cherrytree59 Mon 16-Sept-24 10:03:30

Well done Pru.
Strutting your stuff , having fun and ignoring the naysayers
Interesting article.

MissAdventure Mon 16-Sept-24 09:57:59

Or wear something that makes you look like a cockroach, and have a good laugh. smile

David49 Mon 16-Sept-24 09:52:16

Kim19

Eye of the beholder and all that, David, but I see where you're coming from. Nice one.

I deliberately posted that photo of Tina Turner because there is nothing vulgar about it, she’s wearing exactly what our teenaged granddaughters wear, she has aged well, so has Dolly Parton. As others have said men too, plenty take care of themselves and look good well into their 80s, just wear what suits you and smile.

shysal Mon 16-Sept-24 09:38:36

This article appeared on line this morning explaining her motive. Good for her!
www.msn.com/en-gb/lifestyle/style/dame-prue-leith-why-i-dressed-head-to-toe-in-latex-at-84/ar-AA1qCnvH?ocid=msedgdhp&pc=U531&cvid=b7be37a121f54c7996973f6c6a410a75&ei=5

Casdon Mon 16-Sept-24 09:35:46

Personally I’d rather be sexed up than dressed in a furry nappy as I’ve got a good idea of which looks most ridiculous to me Mollygo, but each to their own.

Mollygo Mon 16-Sept-24 09:03:46

Casdon
I can’t find any of those which claim lacing an old man up in a cockroach outfit makes him look sexy.

Casdon Mon 16-Sept-24 08:00:36

Mollygo

Of course a man may intervene. No one would suggest a man would need to wear a weird outfit to look sexy.
Thanks for the Pierce Brosnan reminder
RosiesMaw2

If you look on Alamy stock photos, it’s clear that the designers who came up with Prue’s dress are dressing men in equally weird outfits - fluffy man nappies anyone? They are called Vin &Omi if anybody wants to have their design preconceptions challenged.

Allira Mon 16-Sept-24 07:46:50

RosiesMaw2

grumppa

Dare a man intervene?

There are two separate questions here, one specific and one general. Specifically, I expect Prue Leith thought it was a huge joke, and I suppose it might look sexy to followers of the Marquis de Sade.

On the more general question, as I approach my mid eighties, I would love to look sexy, but I'm a realist! And what could I do if I did?

Pierce Brosnan at 71 and getting better all the time!
By his mid 80’s he should be hot, hot, hot!

😁

Can't wait to see his interpretation of Ron in the Thursday Murder Club film!

Mollygo Mon 16-Sept-24 02:49:23

Of course a man may intervene. No one would suggest a man would need to wear a weird outfit to look sexy.
Thanks for the Pierce Brosnan reminder
RosiesMaw2

RosiesMaw2 Sun 15-Sept-24 23:35:36

grumppa

Dare a man intervene?

There are two separate questions here, one specific and one general. Specifically, I expect Prue Leith thought it was a huge joke, and I suppose it might look sexy to followers of the Marquis de Sade.

On the more general question, as I approach my mid eighties, I would love to look sexy, but I'm a realist! And what could I do if I did?

Pierce Brosnan at 71 and getting better all the time!
By his mid 80’s he should be hot, hot, hot!

Oreo Sun 15-Sept-24 23:20:37

I’m reminded of the Right Said Fred song ‘I’m too sexy for Milan, I’m a model well you know what I mean and I shake my little tush on the catwalk’😄

Allira Sun 15-Sept-24 22:58:38

Oreo

Male clothes designers always design horrible clothes for women, you may even think they’re misogynistic, I know that I do.
We can critique dress design on here if we like, if you don’t like then try a different thread there’s loads of choice.

Yes, they do, good point Oreo.
They are never flattering these days, gone are the days of Hartnell, Dior, Balenciaga et al.

Oreo Sun 15-Sept-24 22:53:54

Male clothes designers always design horrible clothes for women, you may even think they’re misogynistic, I know that I do.
We can critique dress design on here if we like, if you don’t like then try a different thread there’s loads of choice.

Allira Sun 15-Sept-24 22:26:50

It’s the “sexed up” description I take exception to, as it implies that PL is not “sexy “aka “desirable” dressed other than in their dodgy latex outfit.
Yes, interesting thought. Apparently a woman needs to be dressed by men in what many might term a kinky outfit before she can be considered sexy.

As I've never seen any woman in RL dressed in anything resembling that (and I haven't led that sheltered a life) so claims that it's normal, desirable attire seem to be rather farfetched.

Fashion week does not usually transfer easily to the streets of Britain. The outfits are always outlandish and designed with publicity in mind.

RosiesMaw2 Sun 15-Sept-24 22:15:29

Her life,her choice,why are so many on here critical of things simply because it’s not something they would wear or do
hmm
What is your problem with being critical of something you dislike ?
Does it not equate to expressing an opinion?
I’m not sure anybody is criticising PL just her judgement perhaps in allowing herself to be associated with fashion week nonsense. And of course a legitimate opinion of the outfit whether you agree with that or not.
It’s the “sexed up” description I take exception to, as it implies that PL is not “sexy “aka “desirable” dressed other than in their dodgy latex outfit.

Galaxy Sun 15-Sept-24 21:52:37

Dont think that much of choicey choice feminism I am afraid. It tends to miss the wider issues, and generally is awful for the most vulnerable.

paddyann54 Sun 15-Sept-24 21:50:49

Isn,t feminism about choice?I always believed it was and I,m quite sure PL is capable of making her own decisions.Her life,her choice,why are so many on here critical of things simply because it’s not something they would wear or do.

I don’t understand the mindset that unless it’s in your comfort zone it ,s bad!

Allira Sun 15-Sept-24 21:44:57

Is clothing Art?

A subject for debate.

Galaxy Sun 15-Sept-24 21:39:01

I love the way 'art'is used to shut down any criticism or critical thought.

VioletSky Sun 15-Sept-24 21:20:59

Art is art... Just look at what you enjoy