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Is “sexy” what you want to be in your mid-80’s?

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RosiesMaw2 Sat 14-Sept-24 11:43:01

My heart sank when I saw the headline “Dame Prue Leith sexed -up”
Dame Prue Leith has been “sexed up” to walk the runway in a latex dress for avant-garde eco-designers Vin + Omi
The Bake Off judge, 84, appeared in the duo’s 20th anniversary show, Moxie, in Kensington as part of London Fashion Week wearing a black latex dress with red stitching and matching evening gloves
Speaking before the show, Omi told The Telegraph: “You’re going to see Prue Leith like you’ve never seen her before, not in your wildest dreams.
“. Even her husband doesn’t know what she’s wearing, he’s going to be shocked but he’s going to love it. We’re gonna sex her up. “
He added that Dame Prue, a close friend of the pair, is “game for anything
Laying my cards on the table
1) I don’t think black latex is “sexy” - I think it looks tarty and that is NOT the same thing
2) black and scarlet are such an unimaginative and hackneyed combination if looking glamorous is the intention
3) with trainers?
4) I think Prue Leith has her own, colourful style. I love the big glasses, the bold necklaces and adventurous colours - she generally looks fantastic.
“Sexed up” is not her style and it depresses me that yet another man seems to equate looking sexy with looking attractive.
🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Marydoll Sun 15-Sept-24 12:48:14

David49

This is what sexy at 80 looks like

Absolutely not!

David49 Sun 15-Sept-24 12:46:48

This is what sexy at 80 looks like

eazybee Sun 15-Sept-24 12:36:39

She reminds me of the models of Vivienne Westwood; she was not pleased when they appeared on Wogan many years ago and the audience collapsed with laughter.
She may have been iconic, but I don't think her clothes flattered many women.

VioletSky Sun 15-Sept-24 11:28:19

Fashion shows are meant to be art

DamaskRose Sun 15-Sept-24 11:27:23

This was a fashion show for goodness sake, she won’t be wearing it in Waitrose.
I don’t think anybody looks good in leather (or whatever this outfit is made from) apart from on their feet, or hands.
I like PL in the Kettlewell stuff she wears but I prefer something a little more subtle.

rafichagran Sun 15-Sept-24 11:14:53

VioletSky

I actually think it suits her, good for her!

I agree with this. My wardrobe is 90% black, I feel comfortable with the way I dress.
I think Pru just did this as a one off as her wardrobe is usually colourful. I cannot take it too seriously ti be honest.

Oreo Sun 15-Sept-24 11:13:19

It’s a NO from me as well, it just looks laughable.

Oreo Sun 15-Sept-24 11:12:28

LucyAnna2

That outfit looks sad and unattractive to me - looks as if she’s auditioning to play a woodlouse in an avant garde play……

Why anyone would want to make her ‘look sexy’ I don’t know, but, give her love of vibrant colours, a slinky sequinned rainbow dress might have hit the mark?

Not keen on her ‘Kettlewell’ look either - colours too garish and too much going on!

Your first sentence had me spluttering coffee everywhere😂

loopyloo Sun 15-Sept-24 10:49:11

The teeth is the most difficult and expensive thing.
Had hair cut for first time in 27 weeks. So pleased.

Galaxy Sun 15-Sept-24 10:46:39

Its fashion influenced by porn. Depends what you think about that I suppose.

loopyloo Sun 15-Sept-24 10:42:56

Exactly, Icandoit.
Have made a start by trying on my new Roman dresses. Might send the black one back, or I might glam it up +++.

VioletSky Sun 15-Sept-24 10:27:30

I actually think it suits her, good for her!

loopyloo Sun 15-Sept-24 10:21:21

I might try a modified copy of that from what I have in the shed.
A black teashirt with pegs and lots of black eye makeup.
Will send a pic if I do!

Icandoit Sun 15-Sept-24 10:20:35

I give her 10/10 for doing this show, she is a very attractive women especially for her age. I would LOVE someone to glam me up, hair, make-up, lovely white teeth all the things that most of us are never able to have the opportunity to do. Well done to her I say. You only lives once. grin

David49 Sun 15-Sept-24 10:15:59

No Prue that’s not sexy, in general if you have the figure at 70 or 80 you can be very stylish, even alluring, plenty of celebrities do that.
Just make the best of what you’ve got, nice makeup, nice smile and sparking eyes

Jennerdysphoria Sun 15-Sept-24 10:13:12

Well I really like it, and for once the trainers actually go with the dress. But I don't think it is 'sexy' and don't accept that any outfit should be 'sexy' by default, on anyone (of any age).

Vito Sun 15-Sept-24 09:52:38

I'm going against the grain, I think she looks great.

heath480 Sun 15-Sept-24 00:48:08

That is very Prue Leith,she loves attention and talking about her sex life….yuck.

Deedaa Sun 15-Sept-24 00:09:23

Well if you can't look outrageous at 84 when are you going to do it? Sadly I don't know any deranged designers who would try sexing me up.

grumppa Sat 14-Sept-24 23:59:44

Dare a man intervene?

There are two separate questions here, one specific and one general. Specifically, I expect Prue Leith thought it was a huge joke, and I suppose it might look sexy to followers of the Marquis de Sade.

On the more general question, as I approach my mid eighties, I would love to look sexy, but I'm a realist! And what could I do if I did?

henetha Sat 14-Sept-24 23:17:42

I admire any woman who's brave enough to be different.
Personally I don't want to look sexy, just be comfortable now at very nearly 87. My creaky bones need warmth and softness. smile

Allira Sat 14-Sept-24 23:11:24

The audience looks distinctly underwhelmed.

Kate1949 Sat 14-Sept-24 23:05:33

I think she looks fabulous

Allira Sat 14-Sept-24 22:49:37

So would you wear that black creation paddyann?

paddyann54 Sat 14-Sept-24 22:10:23

Surely we don’t expect to wear one style of clothing just because of our age?I don’t,never have and never will I would be very irritated if anyone suggested I should.