Madmeg
All my life I have tried to keep up with changes. We were the first people I know to have a computer, a video recorder, a mobile phone. My DH worked all his life in technology areas. We both worked in Universities who were quick to use new technology.
But now we struggle with all of it. Every time (exaggeration I know) I switch the laptop on something has changed. Yesterday it told me I had no people in my mail address book - it took me four hours to find them. Our Smart TV has changed the way we have to use it (no notice from anyone). I recently got hearing aids and the technician proudly showed me the benefits of "linking" them to my mobile phone. Now I realise that if I don't have them in I can't hear it ringing - and of course neither can my DH. And when I DO have them in, I have no means of telling where the damn phone is cos it sounds as if it is inside my head! I can't work out how to switch the facility off either. The booklet doesn't tell me such a minor detail. What happens if I need a new phone?
I am losing the will to live with all this new stuff.
By now I've come to the conclusion that there are two reasons and only those two reasons why things keep getting "updated"....
1. So some people can make money by selling us "updated" stuff we neither need nor want.
2. For that group of people that have an ego motive for wanting to always "have/do the latest thing" - because they're "Special" in their opinion.
Personally - I want to know what way changes of anything will make my life easier/more enjoyable/etc and I just don't see that benefit with much of it.
Stuff like (conventional) central heating, landline phones, reasonable level tv's, etc have made our lives easier. But basically it feels to me like "improvements" stopped some point in the 1990's and after that much of it is down to someone wanting money and/or status for themselves and they don't really care about whether our lives are easier or harder as a result of it.