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MayBee70 Fri 14-Feb-25 18:47:15

Yesterday I had a conversation with my partner about someone I know that is raising money for a charity to help blind people. Since then my Facebook page has been flooded with adverts for the RNIB. I haven’t googled anything about it so can only assume that Siri was listening to me, which I find very unnerving shock

dogsmother Fri 21-Feb-25 13:28:36

The spyware stuff is everywhere too, sneakily so, I know people who have found things sewn into clothing. Can’t recall where it came from probably asos or similar knowing who it was.

Elegran Fri 21-Feb-25 08:28:00

It is illegal to use these devices in the UK (and a lot of other places. See en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mobile_phone_jammer for which places)

Elegran Fri 21-Feb-25 08:20:49

The word in parenthesis in the post above (I won't add it) is the name of a site which sells mobile phone jammers. If I read the description right, they disable mobile phones within the range of the jammer, preventing them from receiving signals and from transmitting them so they will not help anyone's privacy, just prevent them and anyone else within range from using their phones. I am about to reprt the post.
"A mobile phone jammer or blocker is a device which deliberately transmits signals on the same radio frequencies as mobile phones, disrupting the communication between the phone and the cell-phone base station, effectively disabling mobile phones within the range of the jammer, preventing them from receiving signals and from transmitting them. Jammers can be used in practically any location, but are found primarily in places where a phone call would be particularly disruptive because silence is expected, such as entertainment venues.
Because they disrupt the operations of legitimate mobile phone services, the use of such blocking devices is illegal in many jurisdictions, especially without a licence. When operational, such devices also block access to emergency services."

usniniasen Fri 21-Feb-25 07:21:40

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fancythat Sat 15-Feb-25 21:15:54

Your health details may prove exciting to someone.

fancythat Sat 15-Feb-25 21:14:52

Gummie

Yes they are equipped to be helpful. Your smart phone does it as well. It knows where you go and it knows what you spend etc.

Frankly I don't give a stuff what they hear. My life is not exciting enough for anyone to be interested in what I'm doing.

Are your taxes 100%?

Are your friends and family squeaky clean in all areas?

Do you mention the wearabouts of grandchildren?

Are the details of all those commercial contracts you used to work on, of no value to anyone?

The list is endless of what someone may be interested in, in parts of your life and others. Past and present.

Did you say a non woke word in 2015?

ayse Sat 15-Feb-25 19:25:35

I’ve just checked and Siri is turned off on both my phone and iPad. DD2 must have told me to turn it off in the past.

DH on the other hand has Alexa as he finds keyboards quite difficult these days. I loathe it but I have to admit it is very useful for him?

TV also has this weird stuff but I’m not using it. It feels like spying without my permission.

Elegran Sat 15-Feb-25 19:14:42

I assume you have a bank account, and you vote,Gummie You buy things - groceries from the supermarket, clothes from various places, furniture from time to time, and you have grandchildren. Nothing exciting, just the usual boring life.

Your uneventful life is interesting to someone. The boring details can be sold to someone who makes a good living by knowing unexciting details about someone, and using them to their advantage.

Scammers and advertising/marketing people would be very interested to hear anything that would give them a clue to which bank you use, how you vote, which online clothes seller you use, whether you have grandchildren, what their names and ages are, and how much you spend on them.

The marketers would like to send you endless emails or texts with special discounts "just for you" with details of "sales" of stuff chosen to suit your taste and colour peferences, or your favourite meals, or children's items for exactly the same age and sex as your beloved grandchildren, or charming clothes that would look so great on them. If party politics in your area are aggressively conducted, you could find yourself harassed or threatened by someone who votes for the other lot.

The scammers could have a field day sending messages "from your bank" warning you of a dodgy transaction and giving you a number to ring to find out how to block it, which involves doing something which gives them the chance to access your account and do some dodgy stuff themselves. If your grandchildren are of age to be out and about after dark, you might receive a message from a (named) grandchild to say they have lost their phone and their wallet, so could you message them at their friends place (email address given) and send them money for a taxi home plus extra as friend has had to lend them money to buy a few drinks and a curry. Needless to say, while you worry, the grandchild will return safely with phone and wallet intact and know nothing of this.

fancythat Sat 15-Feb-25 16:26:22

My life is not exciting enough for anyone to be interested in what I'm doing.

What groups are you in?
What interests do you have?
I am pretty sure I could find something that someone would be interested in.

I am a Christian.
That would be me done for, with certain people and countries.

Even today, a headline in a newspaper read that just because someone had a British passport, that was enough for a Middle Eastern Country to get alarmed.

NonGrannyMoll Sat 15-Feb-25 15:52:29

"My life is not exciting enough for anyone to be interested in what I'm doing."
I wouldn't be too sure of that, Gummie. One of the great rules of life is "Know who you're dealing with." That includes the things that unexciting people think and do, as well as the big players.

NonGrannyMoll Sat 15-Feb-25 15:46:16

It's alarming just how much of our everyday life is "noted" by our IT gismos, swapping bits of info among themselves. I bought a new phone a year ago and was amazed when it immediately started giving me pop-up adds for knitting wool and silver boxes. I'd bought some wool online a while previously and had been searching for a small silver box for DH's birthday, using my PC (not my phone) for both. Somehow, my phone knows what I do on my PC. My tame techno-head tells me it's almost certainly due to browser fingerprinting and/or cookies, which are notoriously difficult to outwit. There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio....

Gummie Sat 15-Feb-25 15:26:32

Yes they are equipped to be helpful. Your smart phone does it as well. It knows where you go and it knows what you spend etc.

Frankly I don't give a stuff what they hear. My life is not exciting enough for anyone to be interested in what I'm doing.

Graceless Sat 15-Feb-25 11:36:02

Me too!

crazyH Sat 15-Feb-25 11:33:01

JackyB - I have had that.- scary !

fancythat Sat 15-Feb-25 11:30:30

^It's one of the reasons I refuse to have any of those weird robots because I know they listen to conversations!
^

Do they?
I didnt know that.
I dont have them but know people who do.

TheWeirdoAgain59 Sat 15-Feb-25 10:17:18

JackyB same here! I just have to THINK of something and POOF! Ads and notifications by the truckloads! Weird!

TheWeirdoAgain59 Sat 15-Feb-25 10:15:36

It's one of the reasons I refuse to have any of those weird robots because I know they listen to conversations!

I have a smartphone and a laptop but no other ''smart'' things and I swear my mobile listens in, I live alone and very rarely have visitors but I regularly talk to myself such as ''I must buy a new microwave tomorrow '' and all of a sudden I'm bombarded with adverts for microwaves!

I switch my laptop and mobile off when not needing them but I think they can still somehow listen in, it's creepy!

JackyB Sat 15-Feb-25 10:05:31

I get worried when I get ads or notifications about something I've literally only THOUGHT about, not even mentioned out loud.

I don't have Alexa. Partly because I don't know how it would cope with 2 languages in our house but mainly because it's simply too much intrusion on privacy.

Elegran Sat 15-Feb-25 09:58:44

You do know that you can choose to have Google/FB etc NOT send you ads for things that you have searched for, looked at briefly, mentioned on social media and so on?

It doesn't stop them sending you random ads for things you didn't even know existed, but at least you don't worry about what else they have learnt about you.

It helps if you clean out the unwanted stuff in your cookie stash from time to time, too, and just keep essential ones and those that refer to the sites that you do visit.

MayBee70 Sat 15-Feb-25 01:29:42

I’m not sure. I’m always googling things so most things that pop up are related to things I’ve googled with a view to buying. But I hadn’t googled anything. Oh, hang on; I might have googled the eye condition that was mentioned. Methinks I owe Siri an apology!

keepingquiet Fri 14-Feb-25 23:06:10

Have you had other ads on Facebook you didn't notice because they weren't relevant to you?

Sometimes I think these connections are just coincidence-the alternative is too worrying.

I don't have any voice activated systems either- sometimes it just picks up things on my phone...

Shinamae Fri 14-Feb-25 22:26:05

I have Alexa and have no problem with it..

MayBee70 Fri 14-Feb-25 22:21:54

Mine is only on my iPad. I don’t have one of those speakers in the room or have it on my tv. It freaks me out at my son or daughters house when Alexa speaks up.

fancythat Fri 14-Feb-25 22:02:34

^ There is no way I would have any of these voice-activated systems in my house!
^

Me neither.

crazyH Fri 14-Feb-25 20:05:47

Early one morning, I was woken up by Alexa saying something. I don’t know what she said. Perhaps she was reacting to my snoring?