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grannyactivist Fri 14-Nov-14 12:57:02

My husband works away quite often - usually for a couple of nights a week, but recently his job role has changed and he will be away for a week at a time. Now and again I accompany him when he goes off on a work trip and as this week is his first in his new role I decided to go along for the ride.
I spent Friday to Monday with daughter in Dorset. Monday morning husband dropped me off in Bristol and I mooched there for a while before taking the train to Cheltenham. I met up with husband for a meal there and we stayed the night locally. Tuesday, husband dropped me in Tamworth where eventually I took the train to York and we spent two night's there (lovely). Thursday, I took the train to Knaresborough where husband eventually met me at about 5pm before driving on to Bicester where we stayed the night. Today we're in Lyndhurst and I'm in yet another coffee shop waiting for husband to finish his day's work before driving back to our daughter's house in Dorset. Tomorrow we're driving straight to Plymouth to visit youngest son and tomorrow I shall sleep in my own bed again. Bliss.
I have huge admiration for my husband's work ethic, but experiencing his working days at first hand really brings home to me how long and tiresome his days away from home are. He worked every evening until at least nine o'clock and one night until eleven. I'm pooped so goodness knows how tired he must feel.
I know Mr. Phoenix works away from home - does/did anyone else have gruelling work trips? Or maybe quite exciting ones?

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 14-Nov-14 13:01:29

I think that sounds fantastic! And very brave. smile

MiniMouse Fri 14-Nov-14 13:03:13

Grannya it sounds like such a lovely, if exhausting, adventure for you! Your poor DH though, it seems a nightmare for him, especially factoring in all the stress of driving sad Hope that at least he's very well paid to help compensate!

Agus Fri 14-Nov-14 13:25:15

I have had some great trips whilst accompanying DH on business at home and abroad. I'm quite happy with my own company so enjoyed visiting and sightseeing various places then meeting up with DH in the evening.

DH hates being away from home and once the girls had left home I jumped at the chance to travel with him. Win, win for us both. smile

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 14-Nov-14 13:31:23

I am not a lone traveller. I have to be taken everywhere. hmmgrin

#wrongtrain

Eloethan Fri 14-Nov-14 14:56:42

That sounds like heaven to me. Lucky you.

ninathenana Fri 14-Nov-14 20:45:39

Appeals to me too, never a dull moment smile.

I have no qualms about travelling alone. I'm curious to know how many of you don't/won't travel alone.

goldengirl Sat 15-Nov-14 15:55:59

I travel a fair bit on my own and like being my own boss doing what I like when I like and having a whole hotel room to myself. That said I've just been to Chorley for a family do and whilst I'm enjoying some time on my own whilst DH goes to visit some family haunts we've also done some things together such as visit Astley Hall which I can highly recommend.

Humbertbear Sun 16-Nov-14 07:48:17

I've travelled all over on the world on my own for business and a friend and I have just come back from a two week tour of Vietnam and Cambodia. Admittedly, we were with a group, but we were responsible for ourselves and proved to be far more adventurous than most of the couples when it came to using our free time, Especially in the evenings. We relished being able to do what we wanted, when we wanted and took full advantage of the spa facilities in the hotels, Something I would never have done if I was with my husband.

pompa Sun 16-Nov-14 08:52:25

I used to travel worldwide in my job, away from home anything from a day or two to several weeks, usually at very short notice.
When you are away from home on your own there is not much to do other than work. If I went somewhere new for a while, I would try to get a weekend free to explore.
Traveling can sound exiting, but you get to see the inside of a lot of airports and hotel rooms.
On my most intense trip, I left Heathrow monday morning and returned Friday, having been to our offices in Singapore, Sydney and Hong Kong. No time for sight seeing on that trip.
Travelling alone never bothered me much, never had any serious problems, apart from being arrested by airport police at Stansted, but that's another story.

posie Sun 16-Nov-14 12:33:32

Oh,pompa you can't mention "arrested by airport police" and not elaborate!! Do tell, I'm afraid I'm nosy blush

grannyactivist Sun 16-Nov-14 14:36:02

Come on Pompa - spill the beans. grin
We finally arrived home last night having called in on our sons on the way home yesterday, and I have to say it's bliss to be home and in my own bed again.

pompa Sun 16-Nov-14 15:58:43

Not very exciting. I was at Stansted and got off the train at the wrong terminal. I was late for my flight so I was panicking a bit. All I needed to do was get back on the train to get to the next terminal. But I could not find anyway to get back to the train. I went down an escalator that appeared to head in the right direction, but no the way was barred with locked doors, after a bit of wandering around I found an unlocked door that looked promising. OOPS , I was now looking at the back end of a jet, I was on the tarmac ! and the door I had come through only opened outwards. Before I had much time to think about what to do, our boys in blue came along blues and twos going, informed me that I was definitely not supposed to be where I was and bundled me (politely) into the back of the car. Once they had check my credentials they said that they got several idiots (my words, not theirs) like me every day and duly ferried me to the correct terminal in time for my flight. Just shows how easily a terrorist could get onto the tarmac and the planes. Stiff drink on the plane was called for, even at 8am.

posie Sun 16-Nov-14 16:14:28

Thanks pompa grin