Charleygirl I have apologised- and am happy to apologize again, although it will probably not make a difference. Your intial post was not clear at all re:
'I feel as though I have been bullied and patronised by you when medically I have followed the letter of the law.' -
which makes all the difference. My initital response had a big IF in it- that IF you feel your vision is impaired and it makes you nervous to drive on unfamiliar road- then you shouldn't be driving. This is neither patronising, nor bullying. I'll apologise again- but hope that if one day you come to realise your MD is getting worse, you'll know when the time has come. Many people, including my parents, as clearly explained, didn't - same for many others I know or have known in the family, neighbours and friends.
I'm glad you got a lot of support from other Gneters- but I can assure you many have written to me to say they think my comment was not unkind- and that the big IF was clear to them.
I do hope you will continue to drive confidently and safely for a very long time and that your MD doesn't worsen, as it did for my mother. She was a very confident driver- one of the first women to drive in our area and just loved it. She drove to the UK to come and see us a few times, swithching to driving on the left and into London, in her 70s, without any nerves or hesitation. Stopping driving was a huge blow for her- so I am fully aware. Bonne chance.
Each country has their own rules re medical conditions- and my neighbour has been given the official OK. You'll find that in very rural areas, like here- even the authorities and the police do close a blind eye if someone's livelihood is at stake- rightly or wrongly (I'd say wrongly).