I was extraordinarily lucky and a well-travelled child. My father worked in export and was also, probably not coincidentally, a gifted linguist so foreign travel was second nature for him. From the time I was five, the year my father bought a new car, we drove to Dover in the summer, caught the ferry to Boulogne, and just drove – through France, sometimes through Switzerland or Luxembourg or Germany – to Spain or Italy. We stopped in different towns and cities overnight and when we found somewhere that looked like fun for all the family, bearing in mind that there were two children and sometimes one or more of my aunts were with us, we checked into a hotel and stayed there until it was time to drive back to Boulogne.
It was very unusual to see other cars with GB number plates driving through Europe in the 1950s and we always tooted and waved when we did see them. We visited all sorts of extraordinary and fascinating place, from Chartres and Carcasonne to Pisa and Milan and Barcelona and Zaragoza. As a young child I had no fear of attempting a foreign language and, anyway, children can communicate in all sorts of ways. I remember endlessly playing a card game in the evenings with a bunch of children of various nationalities in Italy where the cards have cups and batons like a tarot pack. The rules were hugely complicated and we played it very fast – possibly three or four different nationalities. I remember swimming in a lake on a really hot day in the Alps and burning my feet in the hot sand of an Italian beach in Riccione. That's also where I had my first kiss – from a boy called Gilberto, but I think he only did it because his big brother Carlo was rather keen on my beautiful blonde elder sister.
The first time we went abroad, to Spain, we stayed in a tiny seaside village called Playa de Aro. There was one hotel on the minor road and a pine wood between the road and the endless golden beach. We had a siesta in the afternoon and dined Spanish-style late in the evening – that was my initiation into a lifelong love of both paella and seafood. No one spoke English, except us. We went back there when I was a teenager. The pine wood was gone, the road was a major artery and so many high-rise hotels had been built along the beach front that the golden sands were in shade from about four o'clock in the afternoon. We didn't stay.