I am waiting until we see how things are going. We had a long trip by train planned from Canada to San Francisco for our 25th Wedding Anniversary but cannot bear the thought of booking it just to cancel it. We were going to New York for our 20th Anniversary but that had to be put off because of a tragedy in our family so we decided to go the whole hog for our 25th instead. Obviously that was the kiss of death for 2021!
It was also planned to have a huge 'Do' for my 60th, my husband's 65th and my son's 30th Birthdays but our plans are on hold there too. I have a ballgown in the cupboard which I bought for my DIL's 30th Birthday Ball but it snowed so was cancelled as all her family are from up North. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to go when it was rescheduled...the dress is doomed too!
Retiring and living frugally in money from downsizing after years of stress


