welbeck
i don't feel guilt tripped into doing anything in regard to this man, do you ?
i still can't see why the condemnation.
people can contribute if they wish, or not.
waving to Granniesunite
I think we are looking at the wider aspect of both crowdfunding, and individual responsibility which this man's plight has highlighted.
Does anyone really wish him ill? He was foolish and some posters have said so. I know there's an element of schadenfreude, which is not very nice, but I don't believe that should prevent us from discussing the wider aspects of the fall-out on this man's family; they are desperate to repatriate their obviously much-loved father, don't have the funds to do it, must be frantic with the worry - wondering if they'll even raise enough to begin to cover the costs, and probably afraid he might die in the meantime.
It's an absolutely awful situation brought about by his self-indulgent 'want' of a cheap holiday in Turkey. Lots of things become closed off to you as you get older - my OH is mourning the loss of his last bit of independence because he's been forced to accept that he's not quite safe behind the wheel of a car anymore. Nine times out of ten he could make a trip into the town centre without any problem... the tenth time, he could injure or kill someone. Life isn't very fair to lots of people, but that's how it is. It's OK to take risks and chances, as long as you are the only one to suffer if you mis-calculate.
I am going to donate to this fund - because his daughters and son have absolutely no other options other than to crowdfund, and that's a dreadful situation to be in.
I still think he's a selfish, inconsiderate and foolish man, though.