I have read a bit about Benefits Street in the press, but didn't watch it, as it was pretty clear it'd be as representative of the majority of people who find themselves on benefits, as My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding was of the travelling community.
Phoenix - just want to send a hug, I know that won't put butter on any bread, but I do empathise with your situation. Some very close friend are in a similar position to yourself and Mr P, and it's getting them down as well.
Channel 4 seem to be on a mission to help the governments campaign against benefit cheats don't they. Pity they didn't select a more representative group of people. But these type of programmes always show the more extreme members of any community. I'm thinking Gypsy Weddings, Simply Kosher, and another programme set in Blackley, Manchester, none of which reflected the communities that were filmed in a representative way.