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merlotgran Sun 05-Mar-17 23:32:40

I was pregnant with DD1 in 1968 and suffered months of morning (noon and night) sickness. I was hospitalised with dehydration and would have gladly taken any medication offered.

Our GP was kindness itself and kept saying how sorry he was that he couldn't give me anything to ease it but the horrors of thalidomide loomed large.

I shudder every time it's featured on CTM. There but for the grace of God.

MawBroon Sun 05-Mar-17 23:20:18

Another thought -provoking episode tonight. When I think how close some of us were to the era of Distaval, (pregnant in 72/73, 74/75, 77, 81) my blood runs cold. Drs were much quicker to dish out pills in those days and the drug companies clearly less scrupulous about side effects than today.

Elrel Sun 05-Mar-17 22:59:00

'Female circumcision' in Africa was a topic during the very first morning of Breakfast TV.

petra Sat 04-Mar-17 13:18:51

And still not one prosecution !!!

Jalima Sat 04-Mar-17 12:52:14

It was me - I got mixed up with that and the newsreels of orphans going off on ships blush

It is happening still today and in this country too.

Judthepud2 Sat 04-Mar-17 09:06:23

This really was a distressing episode. I must confess to having tears as we watched the little girl sailing away unaware of what was going to be done to her. We are expected to respect the culture of others but this, for me, is too much to stomach.

MawBroon Sat 04-Mar-17 07:38:48

Sorry Ana I see (now blush) that that was what you said.

MawBroon Sat 04-Mar-17 07:37:49

There weren't any orphans in Sunday's CTM confused
The little girl had been living with her sister and husband and was going back to British Somaliland as it then was, to her mother who would do it.

Jalima Fri 03-Mar-17 23:19:03

Oh yes, getting confused
It was last Sunday which is nearly a week ago!
There has been so much on the tv about the orphans since then and I have seen pictures of little girls waving goodbye as they went off to Australia.

Indinana Fri 03-Mar-17 20:48:29

One of the most harrowing books I read covered this subject - Desert Flower by Waris Dirie, a Somali girl who became a model in the 80's.
She wrote the autobiographical account in the late 90s and, although I'd heard of FGM (just), this book opened my eyes to the horrific reality.
Well done to CTM for highlighting this awful practice which still goes on today.

Ana Fri 03-Mar-17 20:12:52

Jalima, the little girl wasn't an orphan, she was being sent with her mother's blessing to the homeland where she'd be subjected to FGM.

And yes, it still happens, but these days she'd be sent off with the 'auntie' on a plane...sad

Jalima Fri 03-Mar-17 19:48:31

The only difference now is that the little girl waves goodbye at the airport
I didn't think they still sent 'orphans' off to Australia, Canada, etc to goodness knows what horrors.

Jane10 Fri 03-Mar-17 19:46:39

Oh sad

petra Fri 03-Mar-17 19:28:51

The only difference now is that the little girl waves goodbye at the airport sad

Karanlouise Fri 03-Mar-17 17:41:48

I agree Goldengirl, she looked so happy but you know the horror that was waiting for her.

goldengirl Fri 03-Mar-17 11:11:22

It was the little girl going off on a 'holiday' on the ship with her aunt[?] that highlighted the horror for me! The woman giving birth having had FGM was bad enough but that little girl smiling was just awful

ninathenana Fri 03-Mar-17 10:02:00

I can't say when I became aware of it. I will confess that until Sunday I didn't realise exactly what is done to these poor women. It is in fact more horrific than I thought.

harrigran Fri 03-Mar-17 09:42:04

I worked in a hospital from 1962 and never came a cross a case and it was not covered in any lecture. Call the midwife is based in Poplar and would probably have had a more diverse population than the northern town I lived in.

merlotgran Fri 03-Mar-17 09:21:32

I was aware of it during the sixties. It was referred to as female castration but I wasn't sure exactly what that entailed until more graphic details were revealed during the nineties when it started creeping into TV drama storylines and crime thrillers.

Even dear old Inspector Wexford had to deal with it.

Christinefrance Fri 03-Mar-17 09:13:00

No, must admit I didn't know about this until the 90's either. Despite working as a nurse from the 60's onwards this horrific practice had not been within my orbit.
I haven’t seen the episode yet but well done to them for tackling it.

Anya Fri 03-Mar-17 08:33:08

I was aware of FGM from an early age as I remember my father talking about it. He was with Monty's Desert Rats in WW2 in North Africa and I can only imagine it was something he found out about when over there as a young soldier.

Rinouchka Fri 03-Mar-17 08:28:20

Anyone interested in the subject of FGM should read Ayaan Hirsi Ali's autobiogrophy, "Infidel".

Anya Fri 03-Mar-17 08:19:24

Slightly off piste but this is one of the topics to be covered in the new Sex and Relationships Education that some are so up-in-arms about, I'm pleased to note.

MawBroon Fri 03-Mar-17 07:27:17

Perhaps I have missed it, but I was surprised nobody else has commented on last Sunday's strong (FGM) storyline.
Having welcomed Jennifer Kirby as the new nurse the previous Sunday, I wondered if she was going to have an "interesting" role - and she certainly did!
However, while retired NHS nurses and doctors who were working in the Sixties can put me right as they undoubtedly encountered FGM in areas with a high immigrant population, I have to admit I had not even heard of it until the "Noughties"
A sad story although with a happier twist, but no wonder so many women died in childbirth even in the 20th century.