I don't understand how people can't sace, even small amounts. No need for lavish weddings if you want to furnish a home. No reason to have two or three children if your income only provides for one (plus parents, of course)
No need for a 50" tv or iphones or expensive trainers either. People think they need these things but it's more like want. They have little or no understanding of living within their means.
Take out meals, wine at weekends, holidays 3 times a year. Credit cards maxed out and always waiting for the end of the month to pay back what they borrowed to live on the previous week which leaves them in an even poorer situation.
If the only people struggling to buy cookers and washing machines etc are bereaved and those whose husbands have left or families on 12k pa, then it's a small proportion of society, as unemployed with kids get help with the basics such as beds, cookers, washing machines. People can't afford to get depressed about it, one of them needs to seriously look for work, two jobs if necessary if they have children and no childcare.
It's all too easy to rely on the state ir parents nowadays...or crowdfunding for Christmas. Whatever next...