My daughter and family lived very happily in Dubai for 6 years and I enjoyed wonderful holidays visiting them. I always felt very safe in the shopping malls and on the beach. Their customs are different, but my daughter was shown kindness and respect. No one can really know what happens inside any royal family, there are enough rumours about the British royal family, which we do not all believe.
I saw the bbc programme, and agree it painted a dark picture, but the girl knew the score in her family and you have to ask why she would involve herself in such an unprofessional 'escape', using their mobile phones as they travelled is one example that seems very strange.